“What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” is the updated print version of my e-book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques”. Published in 2017, it contains photos, diagrams, a comprehensive Glossary and lots of practical ideas to inspire you to take your lover to new heights of pleasure and love.
What Does Every Man and Woman Want?!
♦ How to relax and pleasure your lover with sensual massage techniques – and have him/her begging you for more…
♦ How to connect at a deeper level with each other and pleasure your lover more – the secret that every passionate couple wants to know
♦ How to transform intimacy with your lover to another level with these six tantric secrets
My experience of Tantra is that it unites the physical and the spiritual, joining awareness with breath, to balance and harmonise my masculine and feminine energies and enable me to experience unlimited joy and bliss.
A teaser for you is an excerpt from Chapter 1 – see my blog “Crystal Fire – the biggest strip tease!” HERE
It is A5 size – ideal for reading anywhere, any time. You can read the chapters in any order.
Reviews for “What Men and Women Really Want”
“Easy to read and simple to follow, this book is filled with practical ideas and techniques. Recommended as a great introduction to Tantra and a practical guide to exploring your own pleasure and expressing/sharing this with your partner.” Jen Marr
“Ally’s book is packed with great secrets that women really want their lovers not only to know about, but importantly, do, in bed.” Diane Riley author of “Sexy and Sacred”
“Simple, clear, easy, and very helpful. I really enjoyed reading this! It offers many wonderful suggestions to improve the quality of our connections. Highly recommended.” by Ed Love
“I’m enjoying reading your book and resonate to many of your core values. My old patterns coming up, becoming conscious and releasing. Coming out of that space now and into clarity, and reading your book has helped. It’s great to read more of your story – the life you have lived, the things you have learned, and the way you are sharing it with others. Amazing! You’ve always been right out there pushing the boundaries and inviting others to enjoy the new space. I also feel strongly that the libido needs to be freed, socially and individually, especially in the christian west.” Neville Hyde
For more information: see Ally’s AUTHOR page on her website.
ISBN: 0-9946228-1-3
Cost
Australian Dollars $20
US – approximately US$14
Europe – approximately Euro13
UK – approximately GBP12
Express Postage per copy * Australia AU$10 * Overseas – depends on country, just ask.
Payment available by eftpos, Direct Debit, Bank Transfer, Visa.
This is dedicated to all the mothers who do NOT celebrate Mother’s Day. You may have lost your baby or your child through death, or adoption or other ways – mentally or physically. Or you have not been able to have a baby for one reason or another.
Mothers grieve their lost baby – whether trying for conception, a baby not grown to be a child, teenager or adult. A mother can also lose her child to disease, family conflicts or religious or government interventions.
Teenagers are distant from their mothers, usually because tremendous hormonal changes make them challenge everything happening – in their bodies and minds. Changes can be so unbalancing, rebellious and scary that thoughts and words turn to rejection, reckless abandon, and sometimes suicide, therefore, leading to loss, although this can often be a temporary phase.
The bittersweet joy and grief of seeing “my little one”, “all grown up” and getting married to their own love is a big moment’s separation for a mother too. This can often be healed by grandchildren. Grief, pain or sadness of losing a beloved child who dies before his or her mother can also”break her heart”.
The thought of Mother’s Day and your mother might bring up toxic feelings of revulsion, triggering anger, resentment and other negative emotions.
Separation by ocean, country and custom is also a common fear and wound that mother and child can experience. Sporadic communication is often frustrating on both sides.
And then there is a sadness of losing your own mother – physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually – and your own feelings of sadness, grief and frustration.
The frustration of BEING a mother feeling unappreciated (except for one day a year) tired, stressed, overworked and underpaid.
So please have compassion and unconditional love for other women on Mother’s Day as they may not all have loving families to be with.
And if, like me, you are a mother that has lost her child, given birth and not been able to love, nurture and mother her; spoil yourself now. Treat yourself as you would want to be treated – with love, happiness and joy.
Many clients and friends have come to me or asked for help about lack of interest or waning interest in making love and having sex. Either personally or for their partner. For example:
I am not sexually attracted to my partner now, and I used to be.
I don’t want to have sex with him.
Now that we’ve had kids, I’m not interested in sex.
It hurts to have sexual intercourse.
I feel insecure and unconfident about my sexual skills.
I’ve lost my libido and I don’t know where to find it!
It’s uncomfortable to make love.
I am not happy with my body image, size, shape etc.
My wife lost interest in sex when we had children, but I still need sexual release. (men
I have never had an orgasm and I want to have one (women.
I believe a lot of these issues start from a woman or a man’s first sexual experience. A woman’s pain is often a very deep wound.
Girls and romance
Many movies are romantic with kissing and tenderness and girls and teenagers are wooed with these ideas – where male lovers are romantic and gentle and treat women with love and respect and ask for consent. They believe that these movies are real.
Boys and porn
Boys and men watch or read porn, where all women are wet, horny, ready and willing to do any act that a man can ask for. And men are always large, hard and able to have sex for hours and hours. They get the idea that these movies are real
Sex Ed
Most sexual education does not prepare women or men for their first sexual encounter. A teenage male does not look at photos of yonis and clitoris* (see photo above), to know that the sizes and shapes are different. He often does not know that a woman’s arousal takes a lot longer than his. He doesn’t know about women’s sensitive spots and erogenous zones, where to find them and how to stimulate them. And that women are different and have different reactions on different days and times. They often desire a slow, sensual lingering body stroking and teasing sensations. Sometimes they want it hot hard and fast!
Hymen
Teenage females (and males) are often not told about the hymen. The hymen is that little thin piece of skin which covers the external opening of the yoni. It will be broken the first time a woman has intercourse, which often results in bleeding and is always painful, physically and emotionally.
Even the word hymen, which is Latin, is the same in many languages and does not seem to be feminized in any way.
Virgins
So, for her first time, she is expecting a loving romantic gentle uplifting experience, and her fantasies are shattered by pain and blood. He is expecting an excited, wet easy and quick experience (just like masturbation) and as a result he can get performance anxiety!
Neither one knows what they are doing, and each is extremely disappointed.
Emotional trauma, shame and guilt, can result, especially if adolescents are not educated about these things. There is often emotional scarring and sex can often be associated with pain and trauma for the rest of her life.
So the next time, she is tense and fearful of pain, so she doesn’t relax. He is tentative and unsure, not wanting to hurt her either.
The woman cannot relax enough to enjoy making love with her male partner and sees it as an onerous duty.
Alternatives
Open communication and education is the key. Her mother, older sibling or peers can sometimes be helpful here. Books and the internet can be helpful or misleading information sources.
Conversely, if your first sexual experience is planned, consensual, and deliberately, gently and lovingly experienced, you can be more relaxed and open to orgasms.
I have included a photo of the whole clitoris*, as it is only the sensitive tip that is visible outside a woman’s body. Yes, it does look similar to external masculine genitals. The invisible bulbs are shown here as engorged when a woman is fully aroused. Being under a woman’s skin makes it difficult for both her and her partner to know what is going on. Verbal consent and communication is paramount for your mutual satisfaction and pleasure.
Other cultures
In some cultures, an older relative teaches the young person of the same or other gender. For example, an uncle teaches a young woman about sexuality and gender differences or an auntie or close female friend teaches the young man. Sometimes these liaisons (organized and condoned by parents) include the first penetration as well.
Sacred initiation ceremonies at puberty used to include instruction about sexual and spiritual matters by priests and priestesses or elders. These have been lost in modern times.
Orgasms
In life and sex men tend to focus on performance – their own or their partners. When they can let go of the big peak ejaculation, learn how to control their own desires and focus on creating the woman’s pleasure first, then they can have prolonged enjoyment. This makes more pleasure for both.
When women can learn to tune into their own feminine energy and learn how to have their own orgasms, without relying on their male partner, and also how to pleasure them, they can relax more easily and connect deeper.
There are many different types of orgasms – energy orgasms, nipple orgasms, clitoral orgasms, G spot orgasms. Even food orgasms!
Learning to Love Yourself
The key to overcoming these issues is learning how to love yourself, tuning in to your own sexual energy, tuning in to your body’s pleasure, and getting “out of your head”! This can take years or moments, therapy or discussion, confession or disclosure, everyone has a different path.
I can teach you body awareness with Tantric practices using breathwork and massage.
Interesting Fact: Many other mammals also have hymens for example, chimpanzees, horses, llamas, elephants, and whales. (Wikipedia)
If you have any questions or want to learn how to control your orgasm and ejaculation, pleasure your partner more, or have multiple orgasms,
Here are some steps for couples to connect at a deep level, and to practice
Both man and woman meditate separately on their love and connection. Share positive feelings to each other, one at a time.
Share who or what you dedicate your orgasms to eg each other, or healing.
Eye gazing with devotion for a couple of minutes in silence
Breathing together: one starts breathing out loud on the exhale, the other follows to synchronize their energies.
Lovers kisses, sharing breath and energy. Circular breathing – one breathes in as the other breathes out.
The man holds the space in masculine presence. He sits down in a comfortable chair with no arms. His shiva lingam is strong and erect. If not, he energizes it.
The woman dances around him with her shakti energy, fully present in her full feminine energy.
She sits astride him, on his thighs, genitals touching, and they rock together. He gets stronger and harder and she gets juicier
She lowers herself, sitting on top of him, and slowly, inch by delicious inch, becomes fulfilled.
He holds her hips and moves her up and down slowly or quickly, teasing or thrusting. Kisses abound to connect. Caresses enhance their connection
Her juices overflow and run down his balls. Her ankles cross to hold him firmly. And her orgasmic screams echo his moans of pleasure. She rides the waves of ecstasy, he is the rudder in her strong sea. Then he slows, to ride his waves and controls his orgasm to ride his own peaks and valleys, hanging on to the edge and skimming backwards and forwards across the edge. They ride the waves of ecstasy for hours.
She leans back and puts her legs up. Then she perches on top of his thighs. He lies back and she rides his pommel until he begs her to stop.
They sit together softly kissing, and the wave rises again.
Calling women in Aldinga and the southern areas of Adelaide! Are you interested in finding out about sacred sexuality and Tantra, tuning in to your feminine energy, and learning how to pamper, pleasure and love yourself more?
Ally Thomas
I will be available at Here’s to Strength, a new wellness hub in Aldinga from Wednesday 17 August 2022 on Wednesdays from 10am to 7pm and Saturday afternoons. On Wednesdays fortnightly I will be available for AccuTouch (acupressure and Reiki) healings for men and women; and Sensual Tantra massages for women only. On Saturdays in August October and December 2022 I will be facilitating my Sacred Feminine Playshops:
Sacred Feminine Playshops in Aldinga
On Saturday 20 August from 2-4pm, come along to an Introduction to Tantra and Sacred Feminine Playshop – women only To educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with sensuality and love. Open your heart to love and radiance. Tune in to your feminine essence. Connect your mind body & spirit. 4 keys of Tantra. Meditation, dance, movement $30 each Tickets #1 (also on 8 October and 3 December)
On Saturday 17 SeptemberI will present Sacred Feminine Moon Magic Playshop – women only from 2-4pm. Tuning in to moon cycles. Connect your head, heart and yoni. Womb meditation and healing $30 each Tickets #2 (also on 15 October and 10 December)
Saturday 1 October I will lead the 3 hour Spiritual Energy Awegasm Playshop for women only Use breath for grounding, moving energy, unblock your chakras. Energising & healing. You can turn on or turn up your feminine energy! Learn how to have an Awegasm without touching yourself!! BYO yoga mat or towel to lie on. Maximum 10 ladies for this Playshop only. 2-5pm. $50 each More details HERE Tickets #3 (also on 22 October and 17 December)
All Sacred Feminine Playshops include meditation, dance, movement and lots of inter-active fun!
Please note that all Tantra exercises and massages at Here’s To Strength are non-sexual, energetic, connecting experiences.
Events are fully clothed. Any touch is with full consent
ALL 3 PLAYSHOPS paid in full $100 – Bookings HERE. More details and tickets HERE
Services in Aldinga from Wednesday 17 August 2022 fortnightly
Sex Education Q&A Wednesdays fortnightly 12-1pm – free (17/8/22 and 31/8/22) men and women welcome. Ask your questions about Tantra, sacred sexuality and learn what you didn’t learn in SexEd classes at school!!
Full body Tantra massage for women only – $100 for 1 hour session for August (usually $160) Wed 17/8 and 31/8/22. Book HERE
Tantra Pleasure Experience is like a massage – very gentle, very relaxing and also energising, with guided visualisation, breathing and Tantra techniques. Women can learn how to enhance your feminine energy and how to move it around your body to relax and enjoy more pleasure. You can clear blocks from past abuse, fears, hurts and other pains that stop you from enjoying your life fully, and balance your chakras so that your energy flows smoothly.
Choose from
Sensual Massage (relaxing, pampering massage) 1 hour $100 August only (usually $130)
Tantra Massage (can include external yoni massage) 1 hour $100 August only(usually $160)
Chakra Balancing Massage 1 hour $100 August only (usually $160). There is more information HERE.
AccuTouch Healing – for women or men. One-one sessions which include Acupressure, Reiki and NLP modalities to relax and heal mental, emotional, physical and spiritual issues in a non-confronting way with gentle touch (clothed) $90 for August per session (usually about 90 min $150 1st session and 60min $100 2nd session). Paid in advance: 3 x sessions $255, 4 sessions $480. More information HERE.
Transformational Relationship Coaching and Counselling Using non-confronting NLP (Neurological Linguistic Programming) processes and techniques, I can help you with relationship issues – lack of confidence, trust issues, emotional release, addictions, ED or PE … These NLP techniques can help men or women who wish to get over a relationship trauma, learn to love again, and have more romance and a more fulfilling sex life. For men, women, couples. – $100 per hour session August only (usually $200 per hour) Wed 17/8 and 31/8/22. More information HERE
Sacred Feminine Art– Wednesday 31 August from 11am-12noon. learn how to draw a woman’s face in 5 minutes (one hour group session) paper and pencils provided $10 per person. It’s easy and fun! no experience needed. For all people of all ages… Bookings phone Heres to Strength Tickets HERE:
Please note that all Tantra exercises and massages at Here’s To Strength are non-sexual, energetic, connecting experiences.
Events are fully clothed. Any touch is with full consent
Products Available in Aldinga
“What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” paperback book $20
Pampering Packs $20 and $50
So, book in now, for a massage, healing or Playshop with me, call me or book with Here’s to Strength
“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” Mary Engelbreit
Change your Lover by loving your self more
How is your life?
Are you happy?
Are you doing what you are passionate about?
How do you pleasure your self?
Do you love your true love?
Change your Happiness
Happiness is a state of mind. Yes it can be inspired by a person, or word, an action, a sight. It’s still an internal thing, a personal thing.
If you’re feeling sad or unhappy, just feel that. Really FEEL that feeling. For just one minute. Then change your feelings by thinking of something or someone who makes you feel very happy and joyful. For example, sadness of the loss of a friend or family member can be felt briefly and then changed into a happy memory of that person or a shared moment with them.
Passion
Are you passionate about your job or vocation? If you are, that’s great! Celebrate! If not, find a creative hobby that you love: for example, art or dancing or photography. It can give you something to look forward to at the end of the day, once a week or on the weekend. And it’s a good way to meet people and make new friends too.
True Love
To search for your true love, start with yourself. How would you like to be loved? What would you like someone to say to you to express their love? Is it words of love or compliments? Flirting cheeky banter? Dirty talk? Sweet romantic poetry? How do you talk to your self? Change your self-talk to sexy words of affection. Would you like to receive gifts? For example, flowers or cards or kisses? Buy your self some flowers and say enigmatically to your friends “they’re from a secret admirer!”
New Relationships
Are you scared of meeting a new person or starting a new relationship because your last partner hurt you? That new friend or lover is probably just as frightened. So make lots of new friends and have fun with them.
Remember to change your belief to “My next partner will be even better than the last one” and “Our relationship will be better than my wildest dreams”.
Eventually you can change your expectations, thoughts and beliefs to make these things happen.
Of course there will be some ups and downs, some self growth and some fun experiences on the way.
Self Pleasure
How do you pleasure yourself? Here are some examples:
Some people get pleasure from the feeling of wearing special new clothes, and the compliments of their friends.
The tingly bubbly taste of champagne, or a rich red wine; a creamy cold icecream on a steamy hot day; or a spicy hot chili dish can turn you on, one way or another.
Smelling his after-shave or her perfume or a spicy incense or lavender candle can get other people going.
How do you pamper yourself when you want to feel special?
You can read a special sexy romantic book, look at sexy pictures, imagine your favourite lover (real or not) making love to you.
Shut your eyes and try caressing yourself with a feather, or a tissue. Gently stroke sweet-smelling body cream or oil on your legs, your arms, your whole body.
Whisper sweet words of love that you always wanted your lover to say to you…
Run your fingers through your hair slowly and sensuously.
(I have to go now, and continue this myself…)
Change the way you think and feel to change your life to one you love.
Change with Ally, your Transformational Relationship Consultant
When you want to transform or change your life, your love life, your sex life, contact Ally to talk about your first steps…
The expression of our genuine passions can have a vitalising and inspiring influence on those around us. Finding similar passions with others opens up possibilities for whole new experiences and connections. Passion is not a given, it needs to be cultivated and nurtured.
Passions are … the deep inner drives, to reach for what we love. Our passions awaken and energise our relationships.
Would you like to be able to:
Learn more about yourself and love yourself more?
Deep dive into your soul?
To find your highest purpose in life?
Easily find your star qualities?
Create your personal Passion Map as a reflection of yourself?
Find your life purpose?
Refine your passions?
Create a vision for your optimal future success?
Set some goals using spiritual soul centred gentle guided meditation?
Passion in Relationship
Do you and your partner want to :
Discover what passions you share in your relationship?
Create a powerful shared vision & potential for being together?
Develop focus on what gives your relationship meaning and purpose?
Generate energy, excitement, creativity and courage in your relationship?
Experience the essence of who you are together?
Connect your relationship with your partner at a deeper level?
Connecting with our own and shared passion is an important key for thriving and deeply rewarding relationships. It fosters an important bond with our partner based on our shared passions and visions for our life and relationship. Shared passion helps the relationships in our life strengthen and grow.
Having passion in a relationship is essential for keeping it alive, healthy, growing, intimate and connected. Passion in relationship can be an intense feeling, enthusiasm, energy, affection, love and desire. Passion means being authentic with ourselves and our partners, being both powerful and vulnerable, sharing our joys, being open, having a willingness to go deeper and taking responsibility to create what we love in our lives.
Perhaps it is time to revisit the possibility of empassioning your own relationship?
What you can expect in a Passion Map with Ally
A Relationship Passion Map is a powerful way to take your partnership a step, or leap, further – to deepen your understanding of each other and the way you create relationship: to clarify your intention for being together; open up channels of communication; foster a mutual trust; transform relationship tensions; and bring about the highest good for both partners.
A Relationship Passion Map is a new way to build and sustain a healthy and loving relationship. Drawing from the wisdom of the Passion Mapping process, it allows you to create an integrated map of the passions and strengths you both bring to the partnership. The sessions also allow you to focus on creating a shared vision and aspiration to move towards your relationship.
This program consists of 3-4 sessions of about two hours each. It can be face to face or on Zoom. This is followed by a telephone check-in session with your practitioner to review progress and provide support. Each partner needs complete their own Personal Passion Map program prior to their Relationship program.
Your Practitioner
Inspires you into being the best you can be together
Acts as a gentle facilitator and guide taking you through the process
Is accredited and holds a professional, confidential and respectful space.
Interested in exploring the passions in your relationship? Let’s talk.
“Profound, moving, touching and uplifting. A perfect way to renew your love for each other.” – Jürgen Schmechel, Relationship Expert
“I can safely say that for both myself and my colleague, this process has been enlightening and invaluable and that the impact of the sessions has and will continue to endure” – Mike Read, PLD Director, Wrigley
“My partner appreciates many qualities about me that I didn’t realise. It was a wonderful exercise to strengthen our relationship” – Vanessa Hillier, Financial Adviser
“The Relationship Passion Map program clarified and prioritised what’s important for us in our relationship” – Martin Brennan, Consultant
Personal Love Passion and Purpose Coaching Sessions: 4 x 2 hour sessions, includes Workbook, home-play exercises, your own Passion Map, find your Life Purpose to take away. Weekly or fortnightly sessions one on one or Zoom
Clarify your passions and values, find your Highest Purpose, tune into your passions and have a powerful image to integrate into your life to help you live your authentic life and love your self more.
Relationship Passion Love and Intimacy Coaching Sessions for Couples: 5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) – Enjoy creating your own individual Passion Map and a combined relationship Passion Map.
Call Ally or book for a Clarity session. Your initial 30 minutes pre-consultation is free – by phone or online.
Pricing
Introduction to Passion Map Playshop – 2 hours $50 in Unley – dates to be advised
Personal Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose
A powerful coaching, meditative and embodied process that takes 4 sessions of approximately 2 hours each – 1 on 1 in person or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes Workbook, Passion Kit, Life Purpose
Investment in yourself – $250 deposit and $200 per session = total $850 or $800 paid in full in advance.
Relationship Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose for Couples
For couples, lovers, friends – to increase your intimacy, deepen your passion and strengthen your relationship
5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly – 2 separate, one combined session. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each person with Workbook & Passion Kit
Investment $550 deposit and $250 per session total $1550 or $1500 paid in full in advance.
Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop
Sunday 26 July – Flaxley. For women only. More details HERE.
Business Partnership Passion Mapping – Passion and Purpose for 2 people
For business partnerships, and shared projects
5 x 2 hour sessions – personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each with Workbook, Passion Kit
Tax Deductible Investment: $600 deposit and $400 per session, total $2200 or $1999 paid in full in advance.
Ongoing Love Passion & Purpose Coaching
Weekly monthly or fortnightly sessions – in person or on Zoom
To continue integrating your Passion Map into your life; realising your dreams and goals and refining your passion map, by Zoom or personally. Timing to suit both you and me.
3 months x 1 hour monthly coaching sessions – 3 hours = total $350 or $300 if paid in full in advance
3 months x 1 hour fortnightly coaching sessions – 6 hours = total $550 or $500 if paid in full in advance
3 months x 1 hour weekly coaching sessions – 12 hours = total $1300 or $1200 if paid in full in advance
6 monthly programs and 2 hourly session – POA
How and When?
Available from 1 June 2020. Contact Ally Thomas on 0419 038 310 to make your booking now
Tantric energy sexual love making is easy to learn and ecstatic to do (and be done to!!)
Enjoy your reading and imagination of the experience of my Tantric energy sexual love making session with my partner!
Connecting – first touch
His first touch was electric. We just sat and stared at each other and held hands – feeling the strong current flow between us. Then he put his hand on my heart and I put my hand on his – that took the energy to a new level!
The he put his hands lightly on my shoulders and our foreheads touched – to explode my head in an orgasmic fountain of light and feeling. He gasped from the energetic kick…
When we’d recovered from that Kundalini rush, he looked deep into my eyes.
My Orgasmic Pleasure
Can I lick your breasts?
“Yes. Please do.” And he gently licked and sucked my nipples so that I easily had half a dozen nipple-gasms, one after the other, riding on waves of pleasurable energy and lifting me out of my physical sensations.
“Can I touch your yoni?” He softly asked permission in such an honouring way. “Yes of course” I replied, already wet and juicy with anticipation.
His hand gently cupped between my legs and I held his lingam. We both vibrated with the uplifting connection he slowly guided me to lie down, never letting go. When I was lying on my back he did something and the energy changed. Then he played my body like the sensitive instrument it is – tuning me up and evoking a musical symphony to which my body danced in orgasmic ecstasy – rising and falling, moaning and crying with joy and bliss.
I lost all sense of time and space, but never lost that connection with him. The completeness, the oneness and the pleasure was beyond words.
I lost count of how many energy orgasms I had from his loving energising touch. His energy stimulated my whole body – tingling and vibrating all over. My body arched and quivered with the tantric energy. It bucked with the vibration of the kriyas, and at times I was aware of him vibrating at the same rate – flowing on waves of pleasure together.
I reached the blissful state of floating outside (or is it inside?) my body (or the universe), beyond words – just moaning and pleasure sounds expressing my ecstatic flowing experience.
Finally, after countless peaks of blissful energetic waves, he slowly brought me down (or back?) to a state where I could look at him and see him as slightly separate again. Then he stroked my body with feather tipped fingers – spreading the energy out to my fingers and toes, finger-combing my hair and gently stroking my face, around my forehead, eyes, check, down my nose to that sensitive bit underneath my nose, tracing around my lips. They pated, invitingly, and then he gently kissed my forehead cheeks and nose. I was expecting a lip kiss, but he nuzzled my neck and inhaled my hair, keeping me on the edge again. Licking and blowing on my neck like I loved, he teased me, blowing gently in my ear and whispering sweet words in a language I didn’t know, but could exactly understand by the spaces in between.
Then suddenly, he kissed my lips with a full Tantric kiss – drawing first my bottom lip in between his, then my top lip. I inhaled the nectar from his saliva, his skin, his masculine pheromone and it tipped me over the edge again. He gave me multiple kiss-gasms and we joined out infinite energy together again in a different configuration of happiness joy and ecstasy.
Tantric energy sexual love making for her
Honouring Him
I undressed him, slowly and seductively. Sliding my hands over his skin, kissing here and licking there, while he shivered with anticipation. I kissed his feet, wiggling my bum for his visual pleasure, then slowly moved up his body like a snake, to suckle his nipples and lick his neck, kiss all over his face cheeks, nose and lips.
Sometimes I would kiss and lick his purple head, just to tease him and check his control. He would moan with pleasure…
He lay down on the massage table on his tummy, which was a bit awkward, as his erection got in the way. Then I would anoint his body with oil on my hands, gently stroking all over his back, down the outside of his legs and up the inside sensitive groin. His bum wiggled with delight, like a happy puppy! He let out a big sigh, releasing pent up tension, as my palms, fingers and nails tenderly touched each area and his awareness sunk into his body, his pleasure increased and he moaned with ecstasy.
My breasts brushed over his legs, bum, back as I stroked intimate parts of his perineum and balls from behind. He didn’t know which pleasure to concentrate on and surrendered to just receiving it all.
Then I stroked his arms and hands, twisting his fingers like I would twist his lingam later. His hands found my hanging breasts and gently stroked them, so I stopped playing with him and concentrated on receiving his loving touch.
Then I moved to the other side, stroking him with my breasts all down his body.
After oiling my breasts, I climbed on the massage table from behind him, stroking his legs, bum cheeks and back with my finger tips. Then I slid up his back and down again. He moaned again, put his hands around me and stroked my legs and bottom. I nibbled his neck and blew in his ear. He purred like a lion with the pleasure.
After a while I sat back and played with his perineum a bit more. He obligingly put his cute ass in the air and I had easy access to his lingam from behind. So I stroked it and teased it, while he just moaned more and more… I helped him stay on the edge for several peaks of pleasure.
To bring him down a bit, I stroked his arms and legs to help him be aware and distribute his sexual energy outwards. Then I got down and retrieved the big pillow.
Tantric energy sexual love making for him
Edging Pleasure for Him
He turned over and I got a lovely view of his magnificent cock. While he got the view of my magnificent breasts.
As I oiled his legs and thighs and groin by hand, he murmured his appreciation – “I feel SO relaxed !”
Then I stroked my breasts up his legs to his sensitive bits – gently pushing his lingam in between them. He moaned again, and it playfully tapped me with his strong PC muscle action.
I nibbled, licked and sucked his nipples, blowing on them to stimulate him more and more. We kissed and exchanged breath and energy in an orgasmic dance (without a single tongue involved!) that united our circle of fire and water in a dancing spiral of rainbow energy, spinning around and through us.
Then he kissed my nipples and I had several loud nipple-gasms as he gently licked and sucked them to take me to the peak. I surrendered…
Then it was his turn again and I stroked his arms, licked his neck and all the other parts he loved me to play with while standing beside the table.
After much fun play, I oiled my hands again and sat between his legs. I started stroking his perineum and balls, slowly making my way, fingertip by fingertip, to his rock hard lingam. Again he was moaning with desire and anticipation, as I pleasured him with different strokes and touches. Spreading energy and sensation down his legs, up his chest, down his arms. Then back to his sex spot.
Our Tantric Energy Sexual Union
I lay on top of him, breasts cradling his lingam and stroking in between with my heart energy, sliding up and down with his breaths and mine joining together in sweet harmony.
We slithered and wound ourselves together, joining in kisses and touches, hugs and hand strokes, teasing and tantalising each other, passionately making tantric sexual love on physical spiritual and energetic levels simultaneously until we were both satiated.
To be continued …..
Tantric energy sexual love making by the sea
Your Tantric energy sexual love making
Couples can learn how to do this:
Buy and read my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” or
See more information about Tantra Couples sessions HERE
Explore your Sacred Feminine energy in my Sensuality Love and Intimacy Playshop in Brisbane on 11 December 2018.
Sacred Feminine sessions are to educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with sensuality and love.
Do you want to tune into your Sacred Feminine Energy?
Empower your spiritual energy? Open your heart to love and radiance
To learn more about spiritual sacred energy and how to enhance it more?
Use Tantric breathwork for grounding, moving your energy, unblock your chakras to heal and energize
Connect with your spiritual guides and angels
Reconnect magic, passion, feel deep love and powerful female energy
Use meditation, dance, movement and Tantric techniques to tune into your unique divine energy
These Playshops have previously been held in Adelaide, Rockhampton, Brisbane, Hobart, and in April 2017 about 60 women attended one at the Nyari Niara (Good Spirits) Festival on Bruny Island.
Using exercises from her book, ‘What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets”, Ally includes meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises and techniques to give you a taste of Tantra, to tune into your Sacred Feminine energy and use them in your life to love yourself more.
Tuesday 11 December from 7pm-9pm – Sacred Feminine Evening – Spiritual Energy Orgasm. This informative and experiential Playshop includes a healthy light supper, meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises. Tune into your feminine energy and learn how to weave and expand it to enhance your feminine Tantric experience and love yourself. You can also learn how to have an orgasm without touching yourself!
Venue TBA Brisbane
Maximum 10 ladies. Wear comfy trousers. $50 each. Book HERE.
Book now $50 if paid in advance by 16/11/18 (eftpos, PayPal or DD, VISA and MasterCard add 3% fees) or $60 by 10/12/18.
* Sacred Feminine Evenings have been held in Adelaide, Brisbane (in 2014), Rockhampton in 2014 and Hobart in 2016.
They can be provided anywhere you can gather a minimum of 6 ladies – then you have yours free! Contact Ally to arrange your date now
Your body is a portal or gateway through which you can tune into your spiritual energy.
Tantric breathwork, Kundalini energy, pranic breathing and some yoga and meditation practices have in common that they can awaken or open portals to other dimensions.
When your mind body and spirit are aligned, controlled and directed with spiritual ascension or enlightened intention, then your energy flows.
Conscious Breathing releases and relaxes mind chatter;
Touch and connection stimulates and satisfies the body’s sensual cravings;
And Spirit soars with the balance between thoughts and feelings – uplifted with unconditional love energy from your heart chakra.
One can direct or lead another to reach these places and spaces, with trust, instruction, energy and vibrational transmission. And the Receiver will transcend to the level of their experience. Some have a pleasant experience, some physical ecstasy, some mystical and others truly tantric full body orgasms or out of body experiences and spiritual energy orgasms.
When I tune in to the Love Grid and ask for love, light and healing for the person I am giving a Tantra Pleasure Experience, I open my energy as a clear channel to receive the flow of unconditional love into that person. Healing can be physical, mental, emotional or spiritual. The energy goes to where it is needed. Reiki energy flows with heat and strength, filling me up with its powerful healing, healing me, then overflowing into the person to heal their wounds and fill them with unconditional love.
I call it Tantric spiritual energy. It has no name really. It has a flow and never ceases. It can be very strong, hot and insistent. And it can be extremely soft, gentle and light. Always healing. Always unconditionally loving. And the empty spaces inside us that have been lonely and separated and unloved are filled up, connected and energised with the most beautiful feeling in the world: LOVE.
Ally
30/4/18
To tune into your tantric spiritual energy with a Tantra Pleasure Experience for Men, Women or Couples today bookings HERE
