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Energy – What is it?

Energy

snake-electricity-energyWe hear about Tantric energy, Kundalini energy, Shakti energy, sexual energy, feminine energy, masculine energy and solar energy.

In my experience, men readily identify with their sexual energy. It is inherent with their strength, their performance and their confidence. Men love to give pleasure to women, and they also give their energy to their work, kids, and then they get tired and burnt out because they often don’t stop to receive.

Women identify more with their feminine energy – their love, nurturing and softness. However this feminine energy can be very powerful and empowering too. It is the force that gives strength to the mother who lifts the tree/car off her child to save its life. It’s the protection she gives when her child is scared, and the pain she bears in childbirth. Often it is a woman’s inner child that needs the most love and nurturing, because she is always giving her love away.

Shiva and Shakti power

Shakti or feminine power is always moving. Like water, it finds its own level. It flows in and around things, enveloping them and cleansing them. It is based in the sacral chakra – in the pelvis and hips.

Shiva or masculine power is stationery. It can be firey energy. It’s based in the solar plexus chakra. Solar = sun. Solar energy can be very powerful or very destructive.shiva-shakti-energy

The masculine solar fire energy can heat the feminine water energy if it’s gentle. Or it can make it boil! The feminine watery energy can put out the fire if too strong, or it can gently co-exist and make delicious soup!

Kundalini

Kundalini is the snake-like energy that lies in the base of the spine, and can travel up the spine to the head through conscious meditation.kundalini-snake-energy-drawing

My favourite way to do this is Osho’s Kundalini meditation, which is a four part meditation – shaking, then moving, then seated and finally lying down. Once, in the seated part of the meditation, I felt an itch in my lower back. I ignored it and it went away, then it was a twitch in the middle of my back, then it moved up to my shoulder. I finally realised it was the Kundalini snake tickling and nibbling me to tell me it was moving upwards. Once aware of this energy, I could consciously move it up from my neck to Third Eye to my crown chakra and out the top of my head in a beam of light!

Fear

Often people have stuck energy – it is stale, or it can be blocked, through fear or neglect. Conscious breathing can help you get through the blockage or the fear. It helps for you to acknowledge the fear instead of resisting it…

That fear is often a fear of the unknown. I often have people come to see me for a Tantra massage and tell me they are scared or nervous. I say – “it’s just a massage, a very relaxing and energising massage!” The fear is as if they are on the edge of a cliff and they are scared of falling down. I help them rise above it, like in a helicopter, and see that it’s just a crack and that on the other side is the thing they really want – eg pleasure, release of block, happiness, empowerment, orgasm, joy and bliss. When you can feel, see or know what that is on the other side, then it’s easier to release the limiting belief, step over that unknown, to go through that transition, and unblock the energy to flow smoothly again – to step into your power and confidence.

Tantric energy

Tantric energy rises though awareness, breath, sound and body movement. It connects masculine and feminine energy in a dance of surrender and control, weaving together in unity of mind body and spirit.

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26/9/16

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Shakti’s Cave – Part 4 – Shakti massage

Shakti Massage in Shakti’s Cave – Part 4

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

Shakti turns… She laughs. Shakti is happy!03 shakti massage energy - My Tantra Massage

She holds up both arms outstretched and commands the fire to subside, to close down, its flames shrinking until they are only a small single flame floating above a mound of charcoal and ash.

She commands me to stand she slowly walks around to stand in front of me. She kneels down with both hands cupped she scoops up some ash from the fire. She breathes onto the ash, chanting some soft gentle words in her secret language and while looking into my eyes.

Standing naked before her, my legs slightly spread open, my proud direct lingam his throbbing, my heart beat pulsating throughout its length. I feel flames gently flickering in the palms of both my hands, a rose opens, unfolds in my heart, and at my third eye and crown appears two shining diamonds.

Shakti starts to cover my body with the sacred ash from head to toe, spreading slowly over every muscle, smiling and humming strange sounds, completely mesmerising and entrancing me. Her divine fragrance fully intoxicate me, she bends down and ever so lightly kisses both my nipples, my heart, and my navel, then rising she gently kisses me on the lips. My entire body is now covered in ash all except for my lingam left completely naked. A bowl filled with sweet almond oil magically appears in her hand and she kneels down before me, her face directly in front of my pulsating manhood.

She smiles, looking up into my eyes, she makes sweet happy sounds of approval and delight, she laughs for she is happy with what she sees. She breathes her warm moist breath onto my lingam, she dips her free hand into the bowl of oil and with the softest most exquisite loving adoring touch she anoints my shaft and my balls covering them with oil slowly, gently pulling me while she makes the most magical humming sounds. The fire grows and rises again…

I became conscious of the gentle touch of a feather, perhaps a peacock feather, gently touching and stroking, caressing every part of my body. She teases and tantalises me, running the feather lightly over my belly, my balls, along my perineum, ever so slowly along the full length of my pulsating cock, teasing my head all around. I am completely helpless, I moan deeper and deeper, completely surrendering to the total becoming of those sensations.

She laughs as I shudder and tremble at her divine touch. Shakti is happy!

Shakti bends down and breathing ever so softly into my ear, she hums her magical female sounds, arousing me to a new level of intensity.

Shakti kneels down and gently closes my eyes with her hands. Although I cannot see her I can feel and seemed to divine presence close to my body. I can hear her magically humming her mystifying, magical sounds and they resonate through every cell in my body, vibrating me to a much heightened state of awareness.

…

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Shakti’s Cave – Part 3

Shakti’s Cave – Part 3

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

At the back of Shakti’s cave there is a small alcove. I did not see at first, and it is as if it has just appeared. I see that standing within it is a very beautiful, very old and ornate lingam and yoni statue, all black and shiny, glistening from the fire’s flames.

Shakti now moves slowly over to the alcove in her slow rhythmic dance, and as she starts to dance to the lingam, so I can only see her from behind. She holds it with both hands while she sways from side to side, slowly moving up and down, her hands also lovingly adoringly moving up and down its full length. She hums and sings the most beautifully enchanting sounds and songs, in praise of its power.

She adorns its base with sweet jasmine flowers that she plucks from her hair, bowing down in honour of its strength, its life-giving force.

***

From behind she is the most beautiful sight to behold. She lifts up her skirt to around her waist and slowly slowly and she still holds the lingam with both hands she seductively, sensually lowers herself down exposing her yoni’s pouting lips to me. She looks over her shoulder at me, looking straight into my eyes, making erotic sounds of pleasure and delight.

I bow down with both arms outstretched to touch the floor. Chanting the words “Om Namah Shivaya!” I honour her in all of her divinity, worshipping the male, the glory of the god.

“Om Shakti Hum”

to be continued …

Shakti's Cave firedance

 

 

Indian Tantra

Tantra comes from ancient India and ancient China. In Indian Tantra, Yoni is Sanskrit name for pussy or vagina.  Lingam is Sanskrit name for cock or penis.

Indian Tantra

Shiva Lingam is a symbol found all over India and worshipped by many Indians.  The yoni is the base and the lingam goes through it symbolizing the union of the masculine and feminine energies creating a oneness or wholeness.

The union of lingam and yoni is a symbol of creation – of life, spiritual and physical – energy and light! And also symbolizes enlightenment.

shiva lingam in India

Shiva Lingham in India

When you look at it – there is actually a Lingham inside a Yoni – so it’s a union seen from the inside!

Shiva and Shakti

Shiva and Shakti coming together, God and Goddess in ecstasy – using the power of love and the sexual energy to consciously create.  The harmony and balance of mind, body and spirit of two aware evolved beings creating music, art, children, with beauty and love.

Many modern Indians don’t know what tantra is.  Just as many religious devotees who are taught about the ritual and dogma simply follow the steps of the service in a church.

Tantra is about life, movement, flow of energy from one body to another – one leading, one following.  Often the pace changes – from fast to slow, inner to outer, relaxed and peaceful to turbulent and tempestuous.  Like a dance of energy – once you tune in to each other – with your synchonised breathing – eventually the dance takes over and you soar into the universe – an ecstatic state, full of multi-orgasmic bliss in timeless waves.  Combining taste, touch, smell and hearing you float together on waves of euphoric joy. Eventually retiring from the nectar of gods and goddess to this physical plane, to emerge relaxed, energized and satiated back where you began, on the shorts of consciousness.

A Ritual for Shiva and Shakti

  1. Cleanse yourself and your partner – shower and wash each other with honour and respect – like you would a VIP.
  2. Create your sacred space together – it can be a mattress on the floor or a massage table, with candles or soft lighting, relaxing music, food and drinks, incense, oils and other pleasuring items…
  3. Sit facing each other – and spend about 5 minutes eye gazing.
    • Tell the other person 5 positive things you love about them.  The other listens and says thank you;
    • then swap over
    • Voice your Intention about what you want to dedicate this session to, or what you would like to dedicate your orgasm to;
    • then swap over
  4. Breathing together – hands on each other’s heart – circular breathing to connect.
  5. When you feel relaxed and connected, sit in Yab yam position – the man sits on floor on a cushion with his legs crossed or apart, the woman sits on his thighs, close together holding each other in an embrace. Then begin breathing together and then start rocking together.
  6. Decide who is the Giver, and who is the Receiver. The Receiver lies down on a mattress or massage table.
  7. One person strokes/pleasures the other – asking what pressure to stroke.
    Then swap – the other person strokes/pleasures the other – asking what pressure to stroke.
  8. Love making if you both wish.
  9. Sit in yab yam, hands on each others heart and thank each other.
  10. Close the session with a hug or Namaste.
  11. Un-create your sacred space.

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Indian Tantra Shiva Shakti dancing
Indian Tantra – Shiva Shakti dancing

Shakti’s Cave – part 2

Shakti’s Cave – Part 2

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

Shakti reappears…

Now she is holding an ancient bell which she holds to her heart between her naked breasts, and she chimes it 9 times. She is standing right before me, looking down into my eyes. She’s naked except for a most magically deep scarlet skirt of the finest transparent silk. It is lined with exquisite glittering gold thread running down in lines from her waist to her feet.

I see the flames of the fire dancing through her skirt between her legs, her inner thighs and calves aglow with the flames golden light. Her whole body glistens with perfumed oil. Her fingers are covered, adorned with rings of gold and silver, jewels of ruby emerald diamond on everyone. Necklaces hang down, pearls and Moonstone’s grace her voluptuous swelling naked full breasts. Silver anklets covered in tiny bells adorn her ankles. Around her waist is a silver serpent, and at her belly just below the navel the snake has its tail in its mouth.

She has a single fine strand of silver and encircling her head and at the centre of her third eye hangs the most exquisite pink diamond, yoni shaped, glittering and reflecting from within, its magical light down into my being.

Shakti smiles…

Shakti fire dance

 

Ever so slowly, she starts to dance, all the while looking into my eyes, her hypnotic kohl-lined eyes mesmerising my being. She dances around the fire, sometimes twirling and spinning, swaying her hips, her whole body writing, undulating, shaking, stamping her feet upon the floor of the cave.

Her jewels and bracelets all tinkling and chiming a subtle metallic beat of their own. Her beautiful full swelling breasts glisten and sway with her rhythm, she smiles at me, delighting in my arousal and complete adoration of every inch of her exotic being. Shakti is happy and she laughs, making the most magical humming sounds and intonations.

A delicious heat arises throughout my whole body, even though I am sitting cross-legged on the floor smiling, my manhood stands totally hard and erect, fully aroused and proudly awakened, pulsating and throbbing with the sacred heat arising upwards, through my body. Divine desire and warmth continues upwards through my centre, through my beating heart, up into my third eye and Crown. I start to hum and chant strange yet familiar sounds responding to her sounds, we become one through the rhythm and sound.

Shakti is happy and she laughs aloud.

to be continued…

Shakti’s Cave

Shakti’s Cave

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

I slowly climb the path upwards and with each step upwards by step inwards. There are many caves in the holy mountain, my mother, but there is only one that is the cave I desire tonight: the Cave of Shakti’s fire.

I arrive at the entrance of the cave, my destination. I remember that it is not about the destination but the journey. Above the cave’s entrance is a silver crescent moon, as I climb the final step twilight falls, Venus rises above the horizon, and the light of the full moon illuminates every rock and stone.

From within the cave shines a golden light, beckoning, inviting me to enter within. A sweet fragrance, divinity itself, perfumes the early night air, filling my being with welcoming delight.

***

Now I become a true Shiva self, to enter the temple cave as my realised God self. I bow down and enter within. Before me burns a fire and behind the fire on the other side stands the goddess Shakti, smiling, welcoming me with open hands and heart.

Before me appears a tiger skin on the floor. Shakti smiles and beckons me to sit down upon the skin. First I bow down, my forehead touching the floor, I thank her for welcoming me into the temple of my sacred sexual self.

My breathing is relaxed, deeply inhaling the fragrance of the goddess: frangipani, Jasmine, rose, sandalwood and musk. With each inhalation I become more and more intoxicated and yet my energy becomes more awake, alert, refreshed.

***

Shakti now holds a bell, she strikes it 3 times and each pure note resonates throughout my entire being. She disappears… I close my eyes, falling, falling deeply back into the oceanic depths of awareness that transcends all time and space.

Appearing to my left standing in the earth is my Shiva staff, my Trident. In my right hand appears my drum, and I start to make a slow steady beat.

Deeper and deeper I feel the depth of the beat, first in my heart, then beating through my whole body, rocking me gently backwards and forwards. I open my eyes…

The fire grows high, the flames rising, dancing, licking the roof of the cave.

to be continued ….01 Mt Arunachala