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Sacred Burlesque Playshops

in Adelaide

Bring out your playful goddess and hidden feminine energy while dancing up a storm with a bunch of women in a supportive fun environment with Ally Thomas, Adelaide’s womens Tantra goddess

Learn how to slowly and seductively remove your clothes to turn on your lover and your self… (And an audience… if you choose!)

2 evenings of fun, sensual dance and movement for women only
Bring a girl friend for a fun evening!

Ally has had burlesque and strip tease experience in New Zealand, NSW and Queensland!
More details and photos in her book “What Men and Women Really Want”. Order HERE

Tuesday 26 November 2019Sacred Burlesque Playshop part 1
7-9pm Private venue in Unley. Limited numbers
Music and moves
$60 Bring a girl friend for free! (includes sinful supper and champagne or bubbly)

Tuesday 10 December 2019 – Sacred Burlesque Playshop part 2
7-9pm Private venue in Unley. Limited numbers
Timing and choreography
$60 Bring a girl friend for free! (includes sinful supper, champagne or bubbly)

Book and pay for both nights $100 for 2 …

Practice, practice, practice

Performance – Burlesque Party – Friday 17 January 2020

7pm-midnight.
Would you like to perform for a party!
BYO drinks & a plate of food to share
Bring your partner and your friends for a party night of burlesque fun. Dress up or dress down.
Contact Ally for more details…

Ally Thomas

phone Ally 0419 038 310 or email ally@mytantramassage.com.au for bookings and more details or see Contact Page.

My New Addiction

Art Addiction

As you know, I’m addicted to love. Now I have a new addiction – drawing sketching and painting – mainly I draw women’s faces and bodies.

I obsessed with drawing, I have to do at least one drawing every day!

I’ve collected many photos, drawings and picture and also there is some magic that is added in as well. It’s a fascinating process.

I’ve drawn lots of woman, goddesses, copied their essence and expressions and made them unique.

The process of drawing a face was inspired by Flora Aube and Ree Altavilla. On a suggestion by Jill, I took an online art course called “Gold Dust Woman”. The title intrigued me. It started in April 2017 and we first painted a huge canvas with gold acrylic paint, then painted over it using different colours and techniques. Finally a woman emerged.

My first female form was dancer, who nearly danced off he canvas. Then I realised I had “done it wrong” so I was stuck for many weeks. I knew I had to draw head and shoulders of a woman but I didn’t know how. Also I was travelling for business a lot and couldn’t fit in time to do my painting.

So I started by learning how to draw a face from You Tube videos. Then I started copying suitable pictures that inspired me – for practice. I enjoyed drawing them and, encouraged by Rose and other woman friends, I drew lots of sketches in my sketch pad – in charcoal, pencil and coloured pencils.

Self Portrait

A turning point was when I did the Black Moon workshop in Brisbane. After that I felt very sad and I decided to draw how I felt. The result was my first self portrait.

In a way, they are all self portraits – reflecting how I feel. Different aspects of the goddess, of feminine energy and power, emotion and life. Tantric energy often features… And goddesses of course

So that’s why I haven’t been writing many blogs recently and why my second book hasn’t had any chapters added lately! (Progress report – I have written about half of the eleven chapters and published one “Seduction by the sea”)

A new way of Seeing

It’s a new way of seeing – looking at details in faces and bodies that I didn’t see before. Being aware of subtle changes in light and shadow. How to represent a facial feature with lines and smudges, in black and white, in colour, with textures and hues.

I’ve made a website which shows what I have drawn. So let me know if you want to look at it and I will send you the link. I’m still a bit shy about sharing my art!

The great thing about it is that I can illustrate my new erotic fiction book that I am half way through writing with my own illustrations!!

Sacred Feminine Adelaide Playshops

Sacred Feminine Adelaide Playshops

CALLING ALL WOMEN!

Explore your Sacred Feminine energy in Australia in 2019. Sacred Feminine Playshops are to educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with sensuality and love.

  • Do you want to tune into your Sacred Feminine Energy?
  • Empower your spiritual energy? Open your heart to love and radiance
  • To learn more about spiritual sacred energy and how to enhance it more?
  • Use Tantric breathwork for grounding, moving your energy, unblock your chakras to heal and energize
  • Connect with your spiritual guides and angels
  • Reconnect magic, passion, feel deep love and powerful female energy
  • Use meditation, dance, movement and Tantric techniques to tune into your unique divine energy

These Sacred Feminine Playshops have been held in Rockhampton, Brisbane, Hobart, and in 2017 about 60 women attended one at the Nyari Niara (Good Spirits) Festival on Bruny Island.

Using exercises from her book, ‘What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets”, Ally includes meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises and techniques to give you a taste of Tantra, to tune into your Sacred Feminine energy and use them in your life to love yourself more.

  • Wednesday 7 March from 7pm-9pm – #1 – Sacred Feminine Evening – What do Women Really Want? This informative and experiential includes a healthy light supper, meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises and techniques
    Venue TBA Unley
    Women only. Bring a friend. $30 each. Book HERE or Contact Ally to secure your place
  • Wednesday 14 March from 7-10pm – #2 Sacred Feminine Evening – Spiritual Energy movement. Expand your feminine Tantric experience. Learn how to have an orgasm without touching yourself.
    Venue TBA Unley
    For the brave and sensual woman. Maximum 10 ladies. Wear comfy trousers. $30 each. Book HERE.
  • Book for both Evenings for $50 if paid in advance (eftpos, PayPal or DD, VISA and MasterCard add 3% fees)
  • Sunday 21 July 2019 from 10am to 4pmSacred Feminine Playshop – Enhance your feminine Tantric experience. Learn how to have an orgasm without touching yourself – fully clothed!
    Venue: Flaxley, close to Mt Barker, Adelaide Hills
    Maximum 10 ladies. Wear comfy trousers.
    Cost: $95 or bring a friend for $180 – if paid by 21-6-19,
    $105 paid by 21-7-19 – includes delicious healthy lunch.
    Plus $15 if you want to sleep over.
    Payment by Visa, MasterCard, Paypal, DD or cash. Book HERE.

Sacred Feminine Adelaide Evenings have also been held in Brisbane, Rockhampton and Hobart. And can be available wherever you can gather a minimum of 6 ladies – then you have yours free! Contact Ally to arrange date now

Sacred Feminine Adelaide with Ally
a woman in harmony with her spirit is like a river flowing

Sacred Feminine Adelaide with Ally

Sacred Feminine Adelaide with Ally

Sex Secret – size

Size – does it matter?

A lot of men worry about size. “Am I big enough?” And they think that woman want a larger size. My answer is always “Its not how big you are, its what you do with it that counts!”

Go into an adult shop. Most of the dildos and vibrators for women are average size. That’s what women want.

Think of cucumbers, fingers, bananas and other similar shaped phallic objects. Big does not mean better!

In fact, years ago I had a male friend who had a very large lingam. He told me that many women were frightened when they saw it. He was a very good lover. He took quite lot of time and effort to ensure that his lover was very relaxed before he could make love with her.

And there was another lover that thought he was too small, but his tongue more than made up for it!!!

So men, when you wish it was bigger, because you are worried about your performance, just learn how to satisfy a woman with your whole body (tongue, fingers, hands) – touching, teasing, stroking and pleasuring her all over and asking her permission (Are you ready for me?”) before you enter her.

Learn some Tantric techniques from my book “What Men and Women Really Want” about using your sexual energy to impress her and satisfy her more. Order HERE

And it’s often the size of your heart that impresses her more!!

my tantra massage - size

its not the size its what you do with it that counts

Sacred Feminine in Hobart

Sacred Feminine

I teach people about Tantra, sacred feminine and intimacy, and often get asked these questions:

What is the difference between orgasm and ejaculation? What are the differences between male and female orgasm? What are the different types of orgasm? How do I tune into my sexual energy and turn it on? How do I enhance my feminine essence? How do I have an orgasm?

We don’t learn about this at school, often because we don’t know the questions to ask. And often it’s because we don’t know WHO to ask! Parents, Teachers, peers or elders? Who knows? Safety, confidentiality and trust are important in this personal, intimate subject.

As an Intimacy Coach and Tantra Massage Teacher and Trainer, I provide one-one sessions, couples sessions, Playshops, massage sessions, coaching and counselling programs and training for men women and couples in Tantra to help answer many of your questions.

Playshops

CALLING ALL WOMEN!

Explore your Sacred Feminine Energy in two Sensuality Love and Intimacy Evenings in Hobart in 2017. Sacred Feminine Evenings are to educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with connection, communion and love.

  • Do you want to tune into your Sacred Feminine Energy?
  • Empower your spiritual energy? Open your heart to love and radiance
  • To learn more about spiritual sacred energy and how to enhance it more?
  • Use Tantric breathwork for grounding, moving your energy, unblock your chakras to heal and energize
  • Connect with your spiritual guides and angels
  • Reconnect magic, passion, feel deep love and powerful female energy
  • Use meditation, dance, movement and Tantric techniques to tune into your unique divine energy

Includes a healthy light supper, meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises and techniques

Sacred Feminine Playshops 2017 dates

  • Tuesday 10 January in Hobart, Saturday 22 April – Bruny Island.
    from 7pm-9pm – #1 Introduction to Tantra
    . $25 each. Bring a friend. Book HERE
  • Thursday 12 January in Hobart, Thursday 27 April in Hobart
    from 7-10pm – #2 Spiritual Energy Orgasm or Firebreath Orgasm.
    Learn how to have an orgasm without touching yourself. For the brave and sensual woman. Maximum 10 ladies. Wear comfy trousers. $30 each. Book HERE
  • January special – one evening $25 or $30 each, 2 evenings $50.

Sacred Feminine in Hobart with Ally

Tantra massage and Tantra Sessions for Women

Women’s Sensual Massage, Yoni massage, Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantra Massage are more about sensuality and tuning into your feminine essence.

Tantra Pleasure Experience is like a massage – very gentle, very relaxing and also energising, with guided meditation, breathing and Tantra techniques. Women, learn how to enhance your feminine energy and how to move it around your body to relax and enjoy more pleasure. You can clear blocks from past abuse, fears, hurts and other pains that stop you from enjoying your life fully, and balance your chakras so that your energy flows smoothly.

Choose from Sensual Massage (relaxing, pampering massage), Tantra Massage (can include yoni massage), or a Chakra Balancing Massage. There is more information HERE.

ESSENCE Tantra Program for Women

The ESSENCE Tantra Program covers three sessions to explore, release and heal one relationship or sexual issue in your life. More details HERE

Tantra Training for Women

Learn more about Tantra so you can teach others about this fascinating subject. More details HERE

Book here for massages and Playshops:


 

What Do Women Really Want?

What do women want?

Alan Pease said “Men give love to get sex and women give sex to get love”   Or is it the other way around? What do women really want?

Many men tell me they would like to “understand” women, how to please them, pleasure them and “make” them orgasm and enjoy sex.

Women often just need to feel loved – in many different ways – by words (I love you), touch and stroking, gifts (chocolate, jewellery, flowers, being pampered), quality time (going out to dinner or a show) or being of service (good surprises or doing special unexpected things that they like).

Women show their love to a man by preparing good food, doing housework, creating beauty and harmony.

Honesty and trust are important to both sides of a relationship, to enhance your love. Forgiveness is an important aspect of a loving relationship.

foregiveness is the fragrance that flowers give when they are crushed
Forgiveness is the fragrance that flowers give when they are crushed

It’s all about loving her like a goddess

Jaded by men who had deceived me, one day I met a sexy Scorpio woman at a spiritual meditation group in Sydney. She invited me to see ‘The Vagina Monologues’ with her and afterwards she invited me to her place ‘for coffee’. We enjoyed a nine-month relationship together, during which I learned many things about a woman’s changeable mood and shifting feelings, both physical and mental. I learned, explored and discovered many different ways of pleasuring a woman, such as gently scratching her back, nibbling her neck and treating her like a goddess.

Women love to be romanced, handled as gently as the petals on the roses you give them. She loves to be honoured as a goddess – some examples are gifts, dinner, dancing, asking permission, stroking gently with feathers as well as wild passionate sex!

What drives her crazy with desire one night may be ineffective the next night, so you need to learn lots of different ways to please her! If all else fails, just ASK her what she wants! It’s SO much easier than trying to guess.

Learning about and loving her anatomy

Yonis are like precious flowers. They need to be handled gently as they can be as fragile as the woman who owns them. They are beautiful and need to be adored. They are powerful and need to be respected. They are unique and need to be desired.

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yoni flowers My Tantra Massage

Too often we make love in the dark and don’t look at each other’s genitals. It’s a wonderful experience to explore another person’s body with soft lighting and look at their genitals with respect, wonder and awe. What an amazing creation!

What is making love? It’s what a woman does when a man is bonking her…
Allan Pease

The Ultimate Pleasure

What do women want? They want to be teased; to be breathed; to be respected in this present moment of now; to be touched, stroked, tickled, held and made love to, sometimes slowly and gently, sometimes hard and fast; and to have connection, rapport and intimacy. They want to feel safe to be vulnerable.

What do women really want? Amore, more love, that sweet euphoria, the indefinable feeling of union with her lover, her mate, her soul and the divine. To be cherished and cared for, protected, pampered and loved – physically, mentally and spiritually, body, mind and soul – totally.

LOVE

What does your lover want? Do you really know? If you do know exactly how to pleasure her, is there more you can learn? Does she even know all the ways she likes to be pleasured?

Do you still want to make love no matter how long you’ve known each other? Do you want to try something different? If you want to deepen your relationship or re-ignite the spark, Tantra is a wonderful way to do it!

This was taken from my ebook “What Women Really Want”

My book “What Women Really Want” is now available from Amazon HERE

Contact Ally for more information about Tantra

Dive deep into a Love that is beyond relationships
What do women want?

Your soul is so close to mine – that what you dream, I know – I know everything you think of – your heart is so close to mine.  Rumi

LOVE