Month: June 2020

Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend 25-26 July 2020

Calling all women! 

Explore your Inner Self with Joan Carpenter and Ally Tantra

Would you like to connect with your Sacred Feminine Self? 

What about meeting your Wise & Wild Woman aspect?

To have time in Nature and to be nurtured! 

Join Ally and Joan in their shared offering for this magical weekend at The Farm for Wellbeing, Flaxley, Adelaide Hills at the 2 day Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend Retreat in July 2020

A Journey of Self Inquiry and Tantric Experience

Saturday – “Explore Your Inner Self” with Joan Carpenter

Joan is a Facilitator of “Wise Woman Within You”

Arrive 9.30 am, 10.00 start, end 8.30 PM after drumming and brazier- weather permitting.

A day/evening of Inner Exploration with meditation, journaling and Nature.

The day includes :

  • self inquiry with meditation and journaling 
  • time in Nature
  • group work in Circle
  • a contemplative Labyrinth walk
  • Drum Journey
  • Evening brazier fire and more drumming! (weather permitting)

Vegetarian soup for lunch.

BYO snacks.

Tea, coffee, milks provided.

Sacred Women’s shared meal for dinner – bring your favourite dish to contribute!

Stay overnight, be cozy with the wood fire, country kitchen and dormitory accommodation.

Small group of 4 women (or 6 if restrictions relax)

passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop with Ally Tantra

Sunday – “Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop” with Ally Thomas

Ally is a Tantra Teacher and Divine Feminine Goddess

We will explore:

  • Passion, Tantra, & Sacred Feminine energy (similar to the Sacred Feminine Playshop in July 2019)
  • Deepen your connection with your sensual energy (all exercises clothed-don’t worry!! 🙂
  • delicious healthy lunch on Sunday – Shepherdess Pie and Chocolate Mousse.
  • 4.00 pm Closing Circle.

Limited spaces for both workshops and overnight.

Booking and pre-payment essential.
Early Bird $290 until 30/6/20,
afterwards $330 each woman (includes accommodation and lunches)

Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend bookings on Humanitix: https://events.humanitix.com/sacred-women-s-inner-self-weekend-2020

peaceful feminine energy flowing through your chakras, with Ally Tantra

For more information about the Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend, contact Ally

Personal & Relationship Passion Maps

Love Passion and Purpose Coaching with Ally

What is a Passion Map?

The expression of our genuine passions can have a vitalising and inspiring influence on those around us. Finding similar passions with others opens up possibilities for whole new experiences and connections. Passion is not a given, it needs to be cultivated and nurtured.

Passions are … the deep inner drives, to reach for what we love. Our passions awaken and energise our relationships.

Would you like to be able to:

  • Learn more about yourself and love yourself more?
  • Deep dive into your soul?
  • To find your highest purpose in life?
  • Easily find your star qualities?
  • Create your personal Passion Map as a reflection of yourself?
  • Find your life purpose?
  • Refine your passions?
  • Create a vision for your optimal future success?
  • Set some goals using spiritual soul centred gentle guided meditation?

Passion in Relationship 

Do you and your partner want to :

  • Discover what passions you share in your relationship?
  • Create a powerful shared vision & potential for being together?
  • Develop focus on what gives your relationship meaning and purpose?
  • Generate energy, excitement, creativity and courage in your relationship?
  • Experience the essence of who you are together?
  • Connect your relationship with your partner at a deeper level?

Connecting with our own and shared passion is an important key for thriving and deeply rewarding relationships. It fosters an important bond with our partner based on our shared passions and visions for our life and relationship. Shared passion helps the relationships in our life strengthen and grow.

Having passion in a relationship is essential for keeping it alive, healthy, growing, intimate and connected. Passion in relationship can be an intense feeling, enthusiasm, energy, affection, love and desire. Passion means being authentic with ourselves and our partners, being both powerful and vulnerable, sharing our joys, being open, having a willingness to go deeper and taking responsibility to create what we love in our lives.

Perhaps it is time to revisit the possibility of empassioning your own relationship?

What you can expect in a Passion Map with Ally

A Relationship Passion Map is a powerful way to take your partnership a step, or leap, further – to deepen your understanding of each other and the way you create relationship: to clarify your intention for being together; open up channels of communication; foster a mutual trust; transform relationship tensions; and bring about the highest good for both partners.

A Relationship Passion Map is a new way to build and sustain a healthy and loving relationship. Drawing from the wisdom of the Passion Mapping process, it allows you to create an integrated map of the passions and strengths you both bring to the partnership. The sessions also allow you to focus on creating a shared vision and aspiration to move towards your relationship.

This program consists of 3-4 sessions of about two hours each. It can be face to face or on Zoom. This is followed by a telephone check-in session with your practitioner to review progress and provide support.
Each partner needs complete their own Personal Passion Map program prior to their Relationship program.

Your Practitioner

  • Inspires you into being the best you can be together
  • Acts as a gentle facilitator and guide taking you through the process
  • Is accredited and holds a professional, confidential and respectful space.

Interested in exploring the passions in your relationship? Let’s talk.

Testimonials

“Profound, moving, touching and uplifting. A perfect way to renew your love for each other.” – Jürgen Schmechel, Relationship Expert

“I can safely say that for both myself and my colleague, this process has been enlightening and invaluable and that the impact of the sessions has and will continue to endure” – Mike Read, PLD Director, Wrigley

“My partner appreciates many qualities about me that I didn’t realise. It was a wonderful exercise to strengthen our relationship” – Vanessa Hillier, Financial Adviser

“The Relationship Passion Map program clarified and prioritised what’s important for us in our relationship” – Martin Brennan, Consultant

Inspiring new worlds of passion

Adelaide Facilitator – Ally Thomas

More information: http://www.passionmaps.com

What do you get?

Personal Love Passion and Purpose Coaching Sessions:
4 x 2 hour sessions, includes Workbook, home-play exercises, your own Passion Map, find your Life Purpose to take away. Weekly or fortnightly sessions one on one or Zoom

Clarify your passions and values, find your Highest Purpose, tune into your passions and have a powerful image to integrate into your life to help you live your authentic life and love your self more.

Relationship Passion Love and Intimacy Coaching Sessions for Couples:
5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) – Enjoy creating your own individual Passion Map and a combined relationship Passion Map.

Call Ally or book for a Clarity session. Your initial 30 minutes pre-consultation is free – by phone or online.

Pricing

Introduction to Passion Map Playshop – 2 hours $50 in Unley – dates to be advised

Personal Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose

A powerful coaching, meditative and embodied process that takes 4 sessions of approximately 2 hours each – 1 on 1 in person or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes Workbook, Passion Kit, Life Purpose

Investment in yourself – $250 deposit and $200 per session = total $850 or $800 paid in full in advance.

Relationship Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose for Couples

For couples, lovers, friends – to increase your intimacy, deepen your passion and strengthen your relationship

5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly – 2 separate, one combined session. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each person with Workbook &  Passion Kit

Investment $550 deposit and $250 per session total $1550 or $1500 paid in full in advance.

Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop

Sunday 26 July – Flaxley. For women only. More details HERE.

Business Partnership Passion Mapping – Passion and Purpose for 2 people

For business partnerships, and shared projects

5 x 2 hour sessions – personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each with Workbook, Passion Kit

Tax Deductible Investment: $600 deposit and $400 per session, total $2200 or $1999 paid in full in advance.

Ongoing Love Passion & Purpose Coaching

Weekly monthly or fortnightly sessions – in person or on Zoom

To continue integrating your Passion Map into your life; realising your dreams and goals and refining your passion map, by Zoom or personally. Timing to suit both you and me.

  • 3 months x 1 hour monthly coaching sessions – 3 hours = total $350 or $300 if paid in full in advance
  • 3 months x 1 hour fortnightly coaching sessions – 6 hours = total $550 or $500 if paid in full in advance
  • 3 months x 1 hour weekly coaching sessions – 12 hours = total $1300 or $1200 if paid in full in advance
  • 6 monthly programs and 2 hourly session – POA

How and When?

Available from 1 June 2020. Contact Ally Thomas on 0419 038 310 to make your booking now

Relationship Passion Map with Ally

Books by Joani Blank

New Book Products

I met Joani Blank at a Love Intimacy Sexuality Workshop in 2008, and stayed with her in her co-housing in Oakland. She inspired me to bring her to Sydney, Australia to run some sexuality workshops in 2009.

Joani Blank’s “Down There” Down Under Tour 2009

  • “Eve’s Secrets Revealed: all about Female Sexuality” (for men only) Mon 16 November 
  • “How to Get what you want in Bed (or wherever else you do It)” Tues 17 November
  • “It’s not a Secret any More: all about Women’s Sexuality” (for women only) Wed 18 November
  • Sex over 50 or 60 or 70  Thursday 19 November

Joani also held private sessions 1-1 with locals.

Her wisdom, sense of humour and fun made these workshops inspiring and enjoyable as well as educational for the participants!

Joani’s Achievements

Joani Blank founded Good Vibrations, the first woman-centered sex toy shop in USA in 1977.

Joani Blank
Joani Blank at Oakland Wharf in 2008

She also…

  • Founded “Down There Press” in 1975
  • Wrote and/or edited nine books.
  • Produced and directed two videos
  • Invented the Butterfly Vibrator and Titattoos (now Intimate Art Tattoos)
  • Trained and worked at the Sex Counseling Unit at The University of California, San Francisco (UCSF)
  • Was a volunteer counsellor at San Francisco Sex Information working at the switchboard every Friday evening for the first several years of its existence.
  • Taught sexuality courses in the Evening College at Skyline College in San Bruno, CA
  • Served on the Board of Directors of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS), publisher of the Journal of Sex Research.
  • Facilitated numerous sexuality workshops. She was always very interested in many aspects of sexuality: understanding eroticism, self-sexuality / masturbation, polyamory, and sexuality education for adults.
  • A Human Awareness Institute graduate and HAI Team Member.

Sex educator and advocate Joani Blank MA MPH, was the founder of Good Vibrations in San Francisco. She promoted sex-positivity for over 30 years. She was the author or editor of several sexual self-awareness books, including:

  • Femalia a beautiful book with thirty-two full-color photographs of women’s genitals reflect the diversity of women’s bodies. Therapists, sex educators, women’s health clinicians — and all women — will find this volume a welcome addition to their libraries. Photography by Michael Rosen, Jill Posener, Tee Corinne, Michael Perry, and Joani Blank. Unfortunately it is Out of Print.
  • Good Vibrations: The New Complete Guide to Vibrators;  
  • Still Doing it (women and men over 60 write about their sexuality);
  • First Person Sexual;
  • I Am My Lover: Women Pleasure Themselves (photographs)

Down There Press started in 1975 with the publication of her Playbook for Women about Sex and for many years was a part of Open Enterprises/Good Vibrations. It was sold to another publisher in 2007. None of the books that Joani wrote or edited are being kept in print by the new publisher, not even the three that sold tens of thousands in their lifetimes.

In 1992, Joani converted Good Vibrations and Down There Press into a worker cooperative. At the time, there were fourteen owners (including Joani in my new status as an equal owner). The company continued as a cooperative growing to 100 worker-owners until early in 2006. At that time the current owners, more than 70 of them, voted to abandon the cooperative ownership structure in favor of a more conventional corporate structure so that Good Vibrations could attract an outside investor.

The Playbook for Women about Sex by Joani Blank

This is a sexual self awareness book for every woman.
When you have filled out those sections which interest you, you can

  • hide the book
  • share it with a partner or friend
  • throw it away or
  • make it public.

You may enjoy going through the book again after a time to see if how you have changed.

Completing the exercises in this innovative playbook will help you become more aware of your attitudes, sexual history, body image, partner choices, what turns you on and communication patterns. by understanding your own feelings better, you’ll be better able to communicate with your partner and feel more comfortable with your own sexuality.
Limited paperback copies are available. The PDF is approved for release by Ally Thomas. Authorised by Joani Blank 2009.

The Playbook for Men about Sex by Joani Blank

This is a sexual self awareness book for every man.
When you have filled out those sections which interest you, you can

  • hide the book
  • share it with a partner or friend
  • throw it away or
  • make it public.

You may enjoy going through the book again after a time to see if how you have changed.

How come a woman wrote this book? Well, the Playbook for Women about Sex needed a companion piece and no man had written it yet. All the technical advisors, reviewers and editors of this book were men, and Joani was appreciative of their encouragement, support, and suggestions.

Limited paperback copies are available. The PDF is approved for release by Ally Thomas. Authorised by Joani Blank 2009.

A Kid’s First Book about Sex
by Joani Blank

And

The Playbook for Kids about Sex by Joani Blank

‘Kid’s First Book about Sex’ and the ‘Playbook for Kids About Sex’ (for somewhat older children) were written many years ago when Joani Blank’s daughter, now an adult with kids of her own, was a little girl. Both books are out of print and because Joani wants them to be readily available, she has made both of them available for FREE download HERE

You are welcome to print out these books for your own use, but please do not make multiple print copies for sale.

Still doing it (women and men over 60 write about their sexuality) by Joani Blank

Can’t think about your parents or your grandparents having sex? What about when you reach that golden age? A recent survey conducted by Modern Maturity and AARP found that more than 25 percent of Americans over the age of 75 indulge in sexual activity at least weekly.

Sexual pioneer Joani Blank has her ear on the pillow of sexual America, and the secret is coming out about sexual pleasure over age 60! Pulling the covers off, Blank has collected anecdotal evidence supporting these dry if tantalizing statistics. Nearly 40 women and men over the age of 60 share their stories of their partnered and solo sex; their gay, straight and bisexual experiences redefine our images of what it means to age sexually.

Still doing it expands our vision of sexuality beyond youth, deepening our understanding of how we grow sexually. These intimate accounts give all of us permission to seek lifelong sexual pleasure that can continue and get better indefinitely, and with infinite variety.

Editor Joani Blank founded Good Vibrations, the San Francisco-based sex toy, book and video store in 1977. Described as ‘unabashedly evangelical” by Playboy, she has dedicated her life to helping women and men find sexual pleasure.

I Am My Lover by Joani Blank

Six respected photographers present intimate portraits of 12 women practicing humanity’s first love – and last taboo. Over 100 thought provoking duotone and black and white photographs capture a powerful range of aspect and emotion additionally, the women photographed share with us their thoughts, recollections, fantasies, and feelings about their self-pleasuring.

Limited number of hardcover copies are available HERE

First Person Sexual by Joani Blank

Everyone does it – and hardly anyone talks about it!  More than 40 women and men describe their masturbation experiences in a series of vignettes and short stories.

These sexual progressives bare their souls, offering their tales of when and where they practice their solitary pleasure, what inspires them, and why and how they do it! They give new meaning to the term ‘digitize”, and reveal myriad new ways to pet the kitty or play in the one-man band. Read on, fuel your fantasies, and practice, practice, practice.

Pricing

Limited hard copies of some of Joani Blank’s books are available HERE.
Joani authorised me to copy and PDF the Playbooks for sale in 2009.

Name of BookDescriptionprice
Playbook for Women About Sex – PDFThis is a sexual self awareness book for every woman. Invented and hand lettered by Joani Blank
This PDF is approved for release by Ally Thomas.  Authorised by Joani Blank 2009.
AU$19.00 PDF
The Playbook for Women about Sex – Hard CopyA sexual self awareness book for every woman
by Joani Blank
A4 paperback booklimited copies available
AU$29.00
Playbook for Men About Sex – PDFThis is a sexual self awareness book for every man. This PDF is approved for release by Ally Thomas. Authorised by Joani Blank 2009.AU$19.00 PDF
Playbook for Kids About Sex – PDFFor older children and teenagers words by Joani Blank
pictures by Marcia Quackenbush This PDF is approved for release by Ally Thomas. Authorised by Joani Blank 2009.
FREE
A Kids first book about sex – PDFFor younger children by Joani Blank This PDF is approved for release by Ally Thomas. Authorised by Joani Blank 2009.FREE
I am My Lover – soft cover bookWomen Pleasure Themselves
edited by Joani Blank
Lambda Literary Award Finalist 1998
limited copies available
$55.00
First Person Sexual – paperback bookWomen and Men Write about Self-Pleasuring
Joani Blank; editor
Small Press Book Award Winner 1997
ORDER NOW

About Joani

More information about Joani Blank: http://www.joaniblank.com/personal.htm

Kids books: http://www.joaniblank.com/kidsbooks.htm

Unfortunately Joani died on 6 August 2016, aged 79.

Here are some articles about her life:

https://www.xbiz.com/news/210819/good-vibrations-founder-joani-blank-passes-away

and https://www.sfgate.com/local/article/Good-Vibrations-founder-Joani-Blank-feminist-dies-9130288.php