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PURPOSE, LOVE AND SEX

Purpose

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What if a man’s purpose is to learn how to pleasure a woman? To surrender to her seduction? To fully accept her love?

Is it a woman’s purpose to love a man enough to know how she wants to be loved, pleasured and sexed, and tells him, so that she can fully trust and surrender to his pleasuring, sex and love-making?

What is true love?

What is true sex?

Is it that that moment of bliss, euphoria? The elusive orgasm?

Or the ongoing desire, attraction and fulfilment of two people who want to connect their bodies, minds and spirits?

Is it riding the waves of pleasure, edging on that sweet spot of ecstasy?

Or that joyful feeling or seeing the pleasure of your lover?

And when you lose that spark, or that desire. How do you reignite it?

When you realize that your ‘sex switch’ is turned off, how do you turn it back on?

How to turn it back on

There are many ways. Here are some suggestions:

  • 1. Talk to your partner and reminisce about when you first met. What attracted you to each other? Discuss why you got married. What did you feel to want to commit to a lifetime together. Why did you start living together or being monogamous?
  • 2. Learn some tantric connection techniques, for example, eye gazing for three minutes. It works to connect strangers so why not someone you love? And practice them daily with your partner.
  • 3. Have a tantric couples session to learn more ways to connect and pleasure each other*
  • 4. Organize a Transformational Relationship Coaching session or program with Ally. These coaching sessions use NLP processes to release, emotions, clear blocks and reprogram your beliefs about yourself and your relationships.
  • 5. Have a tantric massage* for yourself – to get back in touch with your body and your sexual energy, your masculine or feminine energy. 

Love and pleasure are often indescribable and intangible. However, with Tantra, you can tune in to your body’s energy, get back in touch with your genitals, and learn new ways of loving yourself.

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Checklists

Men, want to learn how to:

☐ overcome Premature Ejaculation and Erection Dysfunction

☐ pleasure a woman

☐ have multiple orgasms  

☐ enhance your sexual performance  

☐ last longer and keep control  

☐ move your sexual energy?

Women, desire how to:

☐ Turn on your sexual energy   

☐ Empower your feminine energy

☐ Connect with your partner deeper, more easily 

☐ Unblock a chakra, or chakras   

☐ Trust        

☐ Let go and be open to love   

☐ Pleasure your partner more?

If you ticked any boxes, why not book with Ally NOW!

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Personal & Relationship Passion Maps

Love Passion and Purpose Coaching with Ally

What is a Passion Map?

The expression of our genuine passions can have a vitalising and inspiring influence on those around us. Finding similar passions with others opens up possibilities for whole new experiences and connections. Passion is not a given, it needs to be cultivated and nurtured.

Passions are … the deep inner drives, to reach for what we love. Our passions awaken and energise our relationships.

Would you like to be able to:

  • Learn more about yourself and love yourself more?
  • Deep dive into your soul?
  • To find your highest purpose in life?
  • Easily find your star qualities?
  • Create your personal Passion Map as a reflection of yourself?
  • Find your life purpose?
  • Refine your passions?
  • Create a vision for your optimal future success?
  • Set some goals using spiritual soul centred gentle guided meditation?

Passion in Relationship 

Do you and your partner want to :

  • Discover what passions you share in your relationship?
  • Create a powerful shared vision & potential for being together?
  • Develop focus on what gives your relationship meaning and purpose?
  • Generate energy, excitement, creativity and courage in your relationship?
  • Experience the essence of who you are together?
  • Connect your relationship with your partner at a deeper level?

Connecting with our own and shared passion is an important key for thriving and deeply rewarding relationships. It fosters an important bond with our partner based on our shared passions and visions for our life and relationship. Shared passion helps the relationships in our life strengthen and grow.

Having passion in a relationship is essential for keeping it alive, healthy, growing, intimate and connected. Passion in relationship can be an intense feeling, enthusiasm, energy, affection, love and desire. Passion means being authentic with ourselves and our partners, being both powerful and vulnerable, sharing our joys, being open, having a willingness to go deeper and taking responsibility to create what we love in our lives.

Perhaps it is time to revisit the possibility of empassioning your own relationship?

What you can expect in a Passion Map with Ally

A Relationship Passion Map is a powerful way to take your partnership a step, or leap, further – to deepen your understanding of each other and the way you create relationship: to clarify your intention for being together; open up channels of communication; foster a mutual trust; transform relationship tensions; and bring about the highest good for both partners.

A Relationship Passion Map is a new way to build and sustain a healthy and loving relationship. Drawing from the wisdom of the Passion Mapping process, it allows you to create an integrated map of the passions and strengths you both bring to the partnership. The sessions also allow you to focus on creating a shared vision and aspiration to move towards your relationship.

This program consists of 3-4 sessions of about two hours each. It can be face to face or on Zoom. This is followed by a telephone check-in session with your practitioner to review progress and provide support.
Each partner needs complete their own Personal Passion Map program prior to their Relationship program.

Your Practitioner

  • Inspires you into being the best you can be together
  • Acts as a gentle facilitator and guide taking you through the process
  • Is accredited and holds a professional, confidential and respectful space.

Interested in exploring the passions in your relationship? Let’s talk.

Relationship Passion Map Brochure Download

Testimonials

“Profound, moving, touching and uplifting. A perfect way to renew your love for each other.” – Jürgen Schmechel, Relationship Expert

“I can safely say that for both myself and my colleague, this process has been enlightening and invaluable and that the impact of the sessions has and will continue to endure” – Mike Read, PLD Director, Wrigley

“My partner appreciates many qualities about me that I didn’t realise. It was a wonderful exercise to strengthen our relationship” – Vanessa Hillier, Financial Adviser

“The Relationship Passion Map program clarified and prioritised what’s important for us in our relationship” – Martin Brennan, Consultant

Inspiring new worlds of passion

Adelaide Facilitator – Ally Thomas

More information: http://www.passionmaps.com

What do you get?

Personal Love Passion and Purpose Coaching Sessions:
4 x 2 hour sessions, includes Workbook, home-play exercises, your own Passion Map, find your Life Purpose to take away. Weekly or fortnightly sessions one on one or Zoom

Clarify your passions and values, find your Highest Purpose, tune into your passions and have a powerful image to integrate into your life to help you live your authentic life and love your self more.

Relationship Passion Love and Intimacy Coaching Sessions for Couples:
5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) – Enjoy creating your own individual Passion Map and a combined relationship Passion Map.

Call Ally or book for a Clarity session. Your initial 30 minutes pre-consultation is free – by phone or online.

Pricing

Introduction to Passion Map Playshop – 2 hours $50 in Unley – dates to be advised

Personal Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose

A powerful coaching, meditative and embodied process that takes 4 sessions of approximately 2 hours each – 1 on 1 in person or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes Workbook, Passion Kit, Life Purpose

Investment in yourself – $250 deposit and $200 per session = total $850 or $800 paid in full in advance.

Relationship Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose for Couples

For couples, lovers, friends – to increase your intimacy, deepen your passion and strengthen your relationship

5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly – 2 separate, one combined session. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each person with Workbook &  Passion Kit

Investment $550 deposit and $250 per session total $1550 or $1500 paid in full in advance.

Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop

Sunday 26 July – Flaxley. For women only. More details HERE.

Business Partnership Passion Mapping – Passion and Purpose for 2 people

For business partnerships, and shared projects

5 x 2 hour sessions – personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each with Workbook, Passion Kit

Tax Deductible Investment: $600 deposit and $400 per session, total $2200 or $1999 paid in full in advance.

Ongoing Love Passion & Purpose Coaching

Weekly monthly or fortnightly sessions – in person or on Zoom

To continue integrating your Passion Map into your life; realising your dreams and goals and refining your passion map, by Zoom or personally. Timing to suit both you and me.

  • 3 months x 1 hour monthly coaching sessions – 3 hours = total $350 or $300 if paid in full in advance
  • 3 months x 1 hour fortnightly coaching sessions – 6 hours = total $550 or $500 if paid in full in advance
  • 3 months x 1 hour weekly coaching sessions – 12 hours = total $1300 or $1200 if paid in full in advance
  • 6 monthly programs and 2 hourly session – POA

How and When?

Available from 1 June 2020. Contact Ally Thomas on 0419 038 310 to make your booking now

Relationship Passion Map with Ally

Sex Secret – Connection

Sex Secret Connection

Both men and women tell me they haven’t had sex or made love with their spouse for 6 moths, 12 months, 2 years, 5 years…sex secret connection kissing couple

It is so sad that people who love each other and have a wonderful sex life and then something happens and it’s gone. Something kills the desire and after awhile you could feel that you don’t “need” sex or love making.

How did you reconnect and reignite that desire for your lover?

  • Go back to the beginning of relationship and talk about it.   What attracted you to your partner when you first met them? Tell them. And ask them what first attracted them to you? Talk about your first date, your first kiss, your first lovemaking. What was special?
    Why you still together?
    Rekindle that spark of love that grew into a fire and kept burning for so many years. If your children are grown up and left you need to rediscover your partner.
    Everyone goes through changes. In teenagers, testosterone and progesterone hormones are strong stimulants, however as we mature they change many peoples’ desires. And in some couples one person, usually the man, maintains a strong need for release from sexual tension.
    Women’s desires often decrease after childbirth and child care because they put so much time into mothering and nurturing.
    So how to rekindle the passion and connect with your lover?
  • Plan a date night, flirt with each other by text or phone or love notes (under her pillow, in his pocket). Give surprise gifts for no occasion.
  • Plan a “dirty weekend” away. Ask her what would she need to happen to make  love? Ask him to give you a gentle massage. Tell him how you really like to be touched, kissed, licked and stroked. Tell her and show her how you like to be stroked on your lingam – fast or slow, gentle or firm, the special sensitive spots…
  • Have some lessons in cunnilingus or Tantra or massage together.
  • Role play or dress up in a costume for your lover. Imagine you are Casanova or Marilyn Munro; Cleopatra and Antony; or porn stars – John Holmes, Debbie Does Dallas! What do you imagine they would say or do to their beloved? Talk about it with your lover. Ask if they want to do it. Ask if it turns them on more to talk about it, look at it, plan it, or to do it?!
  • Give your genitals names. Then they can have a discussion. Using this analogy of a different identity can help you express things that you wouldn’t normally say. Ask her what she wants. Ask him what are you would like to do. The answers often surprise you!

When you reconnect and reawaken that desire for your beloved – you do it deliberately. And when you do you say to each other “I’d forgotten how good it was to have sex and make love!”

That is the sex secret connection!

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