April 2024

A paperback book by Ally Thomas

Description

“What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” is the updated print version of my e-book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques”.
Published in 2017, it contains photos, diagrams, a comprehensive Glossary and lots of practical ideas to inspire you to take your lover to new heights of pleasure and love.

What Does Every Man and Woman Want?!

♦ How to relax and pleasure your lover with sensual massage techniques – and have him/her begging you for more…

♦ How to connect at a deeper level with each other and pleasure your lover more – the secret that every passionate couple wants to know

♦ How to transform intimacy with your lover to another level with these six tantric secrets

My experience of Tantra is that it unites the physical and the spiritual, joining awareness with breath, to balance and harmonise my masculine and feminine energies and enable me to experience unlimited joy and bliss.

A teaser for you is an excerpt from Chapter 1 – see my blog “Crystal Fire – the biggest strip tease!” HERE

It is A5 size – ideal for reading anywhere, any time. You can read the chapters in any order.

Reviews for “What Men and Women Really Want”

“Easy to read and simple to follow, this book is filled with practical ideas and techniques. Recommended as a great introduction to Tantra and a practical guide to exploring your own pleasure and expressing/sharing this with your partner.” Jen Marr

“Ally’s book is packed with great secrets that women really want their lovers not only to know about, but importantly, do, in bed.” Diane Riley author of “Sexy and Sacred”

“Simple, clear, easy, and very helpful. I really enjoyed reading this! It offers many wonderful suggestions to improve the quality of our connections. Highly recommended.” by Ed Love

“I’m enjoying reading your book and resonate to many of your core values. My old patterns coming up, becoming conscious and releasing. Coming out of that space now and into clarity, and reading your book has helped.
It’s great to read more of your story – the life you have lived, the things you have learned, and the way you are sharing it with others. Amazing! You’ve always been right out there pushing the boundaries and inviting others to enjoy the new space. I also feel strongly that the libido needs to be freed, socially and individually, especially in the christian west.” Neville Hyde

For more information: see Ally’s AUTHOR page on her website.

ISBN: 0-9946228-1-3

Cost

Australian Dollars $20
US – approximately US$14
Europe – approximately Euro13
UK – approximately GBP12

Express Postage per copy
* Australia AU$10
* Overseas – depends on country, just ask.

Payment available by eftpos, Direct Debit, Bank Transfer, Visa.

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An excerpt from ‘Chaper 1 – T is for Teasing’ in my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” which has been edited to include more juicy information 😉

Crystal Fire's story

Here’s how I learned about the art of teasing…

A bit of an exhibitionist, I have always loved dancing and ‘dressing up’.

Pink Pussycat Club in New Zealand

When I was 21, I was living in Auckland, New Zealand, and I needed some extra money. I saw an advertisement for ‘dancers’ at the ‘Pink Pussycat Club’. I went for an interview and audition. I was told that all I had to do was to walk around on the stage, dance and take my clothes off. I thought that would be so easy, and I got the job!
Over the next few weeks and months, I watched the other girls, learned from them, and had fun teasing the audience. Men love to be teased, I loved to tempt and tease them and enjoyed watching their obvious pleasure.

Also at that time I did my first massage training at the Massage Parlour next door. With another woman and trained by a woman, I am sure it was a setup the first time I did a massage on a man, because he asked me for a “special”. I didn’t know what that meant!! Of course it meant that he wanted me to massage his cock. I said ok, thinking that this wasn’t included in my training… When he turned over he had a huge erection… Suffice to say it wasn’t a very good initiation into sensual massage and a happy ending!

My strip tease dancing in New Zealand ended when I met the man who was to be my first husband, Tony, at the massage parlour one night. We would often relax in the warm softly cushioned area on top of the sauna in the Massage Parlour, and he told me he ran a night club across the road, which he invited me to. Then we went out for dinner and became friends. Although I had a high libido, because I sort of worked on the fringes of “in the sex industry”, I wasn’t interested in becoming a sex worker or even having a relationship. So because he wasn’t pushing for sex, I enjoyed being with a man who didn’t seem to have one thing on his mind.

In those days it was illegal to sell alcohol in a night club in Auckland, so Tony invented a system where a customer paid for a card of 6 drinks at the entrance, then they took the card to the bar. When they claimed their drinks, the card was punched.

When his night club was raided one night by the police and he wasn’t there because he was out with me, he told me that he had been living there as well, and he had lost his lodgings. So he moved into my flat with me. After living together for 2 years we decided to get married.

Strip and Blush in Sydney

Five years later I was living in Sydney, Australia, my boyfriend Terry started ‘Strip and Blush’ birthday telegrams. Again I enjoyed wearing wigs, dressing up, teasing and embarrassing people for their birthdays in a fun, entertaining way.

Terry also produced and directed ‘Ladies’ Nights’ and strip shows, and we created the stage character, ‘Crystal Fire’ for these shows. We did our own short, sexy versions of shows like ‘Rocky Horror’ and ‘Grease’ at local clubs and pubs, often using local strippers both male and female to join us in the performances. I also did a couple of shows in December as the character “Mary Christmas”.

I enjoyed going amongst the audience, looking in their eyes and teasing them. One of the unwritten rules is that the dancers could sit on people’s lap, dance up and down and turn them on with a look, however the men weren’t allowed to touch us…

Climax Girls in Brisbane

When Terry and I split up I went to live in Brisbane, Queensland. Wanting a bit of extra money, I applied and I was interviewed to be a stripper for ‘Climax Girls’. I got the job without an audition.

Surprised, I asked why?

My female employer answered that I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t know what I was doing!

I loved teasing the groom at buck’s parties, doing school girl acts, and rubbing oil on my body while I danced and teased.

My highlight was performing to a group of about 300 bikers one Easter .

The back of a semi trailer made a lovely big stage – high enough that the heads of the 300 or so ‘bikers’ were at my feet. As I slowly and seductively teased my clothes off my brown body, with many bumps and grinds, they clapped and cheered, chanting “More, more!” (meaning LESS clothes of course!)
I was the final strip tease act of the Saturday evening entertainment of their Easter weekend in a secret location in rural Queensland.
For my last dance I needed someone to rub oil all over my naked body. The ‘leader of the pack’ volunteered!

As I gyrated and moved, he applied oil to my back, arms, legs and breasts with obvious joy and delight. His jealous mates loved it!
There was so much teasing and pleasing in our cheeky fun interaction, that afterwards he asked me to ‘entertain’ him privately. I refused, saying ‘I would rather be a fantasy for you forever, than a reality for one night!’

Crystal Fire with a Difference

Both men and women love to be teased. Temptation, curiosity and control have been the key to seduction for eons.

Here are some more photos of Crystal Fire in her other costumes, identities and past-times. Enjoy!

I enjoyed meeting new and old friends, dressing up and dancing the Burlesque Ball at Stamford Grand in Glenelg just after I arrived in Adelaide in 2011.

I also love watching Burlesque shows – professional and amateur – at the Adelaide Fringe,
Also I have held Burlesque parties for my friends to dress up and tease and have fun.

I have taught strip tease and burlesque classes at ConFest events, and organised the students to dress up, undress and perform for evening performances.

I still do private strip tease performances for special people, and when clients request it.

If you want to read more of this chapter, and the rest of the book, get it here:

Order ebook from Amazon
https://www.amazon.com.au/What-Women-Really-Want-Techniques-ebook/

Order paperback direct from Ally
https://www.allythomas.com.au/shop/

Teasingly

Ally

Month: April 2024