premature ejaculation

Performance in the bedroom – feel inadequate?

Performance for Men – Do you feel sexually inadequate?

Performance anxiety is the big issue for most men.

Do you feel sexually inadequate? Are you worried and anxious about your performance? Has your libido dropped or gone away?
Is it big enough? Trouble getting it up? Keeping it up? Is it hard enough? Do you want stronger erections? To lasting longer? To be satisfied?Stressed out with work life and lack of sex and love?
Are you good enough for her? Satisfying her? Is she happy and wanting more?
Want to have multiple orgasms?

How to improve your Sexual Performance

With easy Tantra techniques you can learn how to control your sexual energy. Get your confidence back by tuning into your masculine sexual power..

Tantra Pleasure Experience is the first of a five part Tantra course which teaches men* how to:

  • control their orgasm and ejaculation (2 separate things) as well as helping erection strength, prostate health and general relaxation and well being;
  • use their sexual energy to achieve their sexual potential and move their sexual energy round their body;
  • pleasure a woman so she is juicy, ready and willing for great sex;
  • align your sexual energy with your partner to combine commune and unite in mutual energetic orgasms;
  • play and tease each other on a journey through your senses.

Premature ejaculation, erection dysfunction and healing from sexual abuse and trauma can be addressed with coaching and counselling in conjunction with Tantra Massage if necessary.

Extras like strip tease, yab yum position, Kundalini energy, GFE*, and G-spot techniques can also be included in your Tantric program*.

Act now! Sooner the better!

You deserve to enjoy your sex life with yourself and your partner! Contact Ally now to book your Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantric program HERE

  • also for Women and Couples
  • GFE – Girl Friend Experience – see FAQ page for definition
  • more about Tantra Program for Men HERE
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Premature ejaculation control

MEN

  • Do you come too quickly? Are you frustrated by PE? see PE
  • Want to learn how to last longer? For yourself for more pleasure, or to pleasure your partner more? see CONTROL
  • Do you have ejaculation problems? Either coming too soon or not being able to come when you want to? Ask Ally about Tantric breath techniques.
  • Do you have erection problems or erectile dysfunction? See ED post
  • Does performance anxiety and/or low self confidence in love-making worry you?
  • Do you have performance anxiety, low self confidence in love-making?
  • Have you had prostate problems, prostate surgery? see PROSTATE (below)
  •  Are you too stressed or too tired to perform in bed? Are you or your partner unsatisfied because one wants more sexual activity than the other?Tantric techniques can help  you.

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Definitions of PE

Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. Premature ejaculation is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation. The most common definition is that premature ejaculation occurs if the ejaculation occurs within two minutes of penetration (wikipedia). Premature ejaculation can be differentiated between two types: primary, which is present from the time a male begins puberty, and secondary which is acquired later in the man’s life. Premature ejaculation can be further divided between; global premature ejaculation, which occurs with all partners and in all contexts and situational premature ejaculation which occurs in certain situation or with specific partners

Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, if at all, an accurate prevalence rate is hard to determine… (from Wikipedia)

“At the 2006 Congress of the European Society for Sexual Medicine, an American research paper reported:

  • the average lasting time of men with PE was 1.8 minutes
  • ‘normal’ men lasted an average of 7.3 minutes.

But there were males who claimed to have premature ejaculation, yet who could last up to 25 minutes. This clearly shows people have wildly differing ideas about what is normal!”

“Premature ejaculation (PE)is also known as rapid or fast or early or involuntary ejaculation. It is defined as persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal stimulation, either before, upon or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes it. This disturbance causes distress and interpersonal difficulties and can lead to decreased satisfaction to either one or both partners. It is now also recognized that ejaculation happens with little or no voluntary control.”          

You are NOT alone

Premature Ejaculation is widely believed to be the most common male sexual dysfunction, it affects between 20% and 30% of men and affects men of all ages.                                         (http://www.sexualhealthaustralia.com.au)

Premature ejaculation is a common sexual problem observed in men worldwide. It can cause frustration, guilt and performance anxiety.
Often PE, ED and other sexual problems are caused by anxiety, depression, worry, overwork, stress, tiredness, guilt and bereavement. Other factors can be obesity, diabetes, alcohol, smoking, nicotine and other drugs (recreational and depression).

Many men suffer from premature ejaculation for a long time because they find it embarrassing to talk about their sexual problems with doctors, therapists, partners or friends. The problem is not doing anything about it, because if you don’t do anything, it will get worse. So you need to take action TODAY!

The reason it’s so quick goes back to when you learned about your sexuality and masturbation. It had to be quiet and quick, so you didn’t get caught, didn’t it?! And so now you need to learn how to control it – to last longer, to be louder, so that you can have more pleasure and so your partner can have more too…

And then there are times that it comes up when you don’t want it to, and others when you want it to and it doesn’t. Its all about control – coming when you want to, not when it wants to!

As you know, there are SO many treatments, cures and drugs (Viagra and other pills and potions, injections), clinics and therapists offering solutions. These don’t work for everyone, and they all have side-effects, some worse than what you are trying to heal!
However if you would like to learn the natural way (no drugs, no sniffing) to control, as taught to many Emperors, Kings, Princes in ancient India and China, then you’re at the right place to find out about Tantra.

Control

Learning Tantric exercises can help you control your erection, your orgasms (so you can have many), your ejaculation (which is different from orgasm – when you learn how to control it).

It’s easy to learn, and in my first (of 3) sessions you can learn how to do it and practise so that you get the experience of how it works. Then its up to you to practise more!

Learn how to last longer, elevate your sexual bliss and control your ejaculation naturally with Tantra

Prostate

If you have had prostate surgery, you can learn how to control your erection, and still have amazing pleasure, with Tantric techniques. Also see ED page for natural Australian healing oil which can also help you.

For a confidential, safe, enjoyable one hour session, make an appointment to see me NOW!

See my Testimonials below and HERE for success stories.

Contact Ally now or make a booking on the Booking Page

Testimonials

Hi Ally,

This is the testimonial I promised you in appreciation for your (extra) time & most wonderful experience you provided me with.
As mentioned I discussed with an Indian doctor that I have difficulty getting then maintaining an erection. I guess I was looking for a quick fix drug such as Viagra but the Doc suggested I try Tantra in the first instance while I undergo all the usual health tests. He suggested that I might actually enjoy the experience even if I was unable to get and/or maintain an erection. (How right he was!) Anyway, I decided to give Tantra a go, but being a sceptical person I thought I would possibly have a relaxing massage but be back to the doctor for the miracle drug! (How wrong was I?)
Anyway, I happened upon your site & I’m so glad I did as you managed to assist me in gaining a reasonable erection which, with your physical efforts & verbal instructions I was able to maintain. In addition, you brought me very close to ejaculation several times. I felt so good with my apparent orgasm/s which I didn’t think could happen with males.
Ally taught me to breathe & control intimate muscles. Breathing was sometimes difficult to control as Ally’s wonderful touches & beautiful presence often took my breath away. It is so hard to explain, Ally’s touches had all of my senses going totally crazy & I think I lost control of reality & moved into a land of fantasy. (God she is good! How does she do this?).
Ally is a very professional & intelligent lady in that she can talk to you as the client explaining the concept of Tantra & keep your attention as a teacher but when she is with you in a more intimate position she is so very, very sexual almost as if she is transformed between a teacher, masseuse & intimate partner but all the time explaining that this is self love. Well if this is self love, I would want Ally there to share it, she is simply fantastic.
Thank you so much Ally I love you for being a true professional who is a such a wonderfully patient & understanding person but especially for providing me with the most breathtaking sexual experience that left me relaxed, drained, satisfied & just about any other pleasant feeling I could imagine. If you were a drug, I’d be addicted.
When our session finished I realised we had gone a little overtime but it felt like I was with you much longer. I don’t mind saying that you had me trembling with an indescribable feeling of pleasure. Then, being the ultimate professional that you obviously are, you surprised me again by not rushing me out of the door but sat me down to discuss my feelings & allowing me the time with you to just talk.
I was so very comfortable with your company (I’m often a little awkward with one-on-one female company outside of business) I didn’t want to leave …
Let me assure that you & the experience you gave me will be etched in my memory for sometime
A good price for a great service………A very satisfied client………….Thanks Ally, I’ll be back……..Soon!
Ally, you said I should let out my true feelings & at the moment these are my feelings. I just wish I could express such feelings in better words; but how do I describe perfection (you & what you do) & what is in my mind, or more to the point my heart. In such a short time you have made me take a breath, not just on your table but in my life. I may not have stopped working but I’m rescheduling my 24/7 workload to allow for a break or two, in fact I called up a couple of old friends (nothing to do with work) & we are having dinner tonight. I would like to use your service as a future time out (it beats fishing).
Kind regards, T

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