tantra

Indian Tantra

Tantra comes from ancient India and ancient China. In Indian Tantra, Yoni is Sanskrit name for pussy or vagina.  Lingam is Sanskrit name for cock or penis.

Indian Tantra

Shiva Lingam is a symbol found all over India and worshipped by many Indians.  The yoni is the base and the lingam goes through it symbolizing the union of the masculine and feminine energies creating a oneness or wholeness.

The union of lingam and yoni is a symbol of creation – of life, spiritual and physical – energy and light! And also symbolizes enlightenment.

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Shiva Lingham in India

When you look at it – there is actually a Lingham inside a Yoni – so it’s a union seen from the inside!

Shiva and Shakti

Shiva and Shakti coming together, God and Goddess in ecstasy – using the power of love and the sexual energy to consciously create.  The harmony and balance of mind, body and spirit of two aware evolved beings creating music, art, children, with beauty and love.

Many modern Indians don’t know what tantra is.  Just as many religious devotees who are taught about the ritual and dogma simply follow the steps of the service in a church.

Tantra is about life, movement, flow of energy from one body to another – one leading, one following.  Often the pace changes – from fast to slow, inner to outer, relaxed and peaceful to turbulent and tempestuous.  Like a dance of energy – once you tune in to each other – with your synchonised breathing – eventually the dance takes over and you soar into the universe – an ecstatic state, full of multi-orgasmic bliss in timeless waves.  Combining taste, touch, smell and hearing you float together on waves of euphoric joy. Eventually retiring from the nectar of gods and goddess to this physical plane, to emerge relaxed, energized and satiated back where you began, on the shorts of consciousness.

A Ritual for Shiva and Shakti

  1. Cleanse yourself and your partner – shower and wash each other with honour and respect – like you would a VIP.
  2. Create your sacred space together – it can be a mattress on the floor or a massage table, with candles or soft lighting, relaxing music, food and drinks, incense, oils and other pleasuring items…
  3. Sit facing each other – and spend about 5 minutes eye gazing.
    • Tell the other person 5 positive things you love about them.  The other listens and says thank you;
    • then swap over
    • Voice your Intention about what you want to dedicate this session to, or what you would like to dedicate your orgasm to;
    • then swap over
  4. Breathing together – hands on each other’s heart – circular breathing to connect.
  5. When you feel relaxed and connected, sit in Yab yam position – the man sits on floor on a cushion with his legs crossed or apart, the woman sits on his thighs, close together holding each other in an embrace. Then begin breathing together and then start rocking together.
  6. Decide who is the Giver, and who is the Receiver. The Receiver lies down on a mattress or massage table.
  7. One person strokes/pleasures the other – asking what pressure to stroke.
    Then swap – the other person strokes/pleasures the other – asking what pressure to stroke.
  8. Love making if you both wish.
  9. Sit in yab yam, hands on each others heart and thank each other.
  10. Close the session with a hug or Namaste.
  11. Un-create your sacred space.

Or you can book your own experience of sacred Indian Tantra massage with Ally

book now for Tantra Pleasure Experience with Ally

Indian Tantra Shiva Shakti dancing
Indian Tantra – Shiva Shakti dancing

Shakti’s Cave – part 2

Shakti’s Cave – Part 2

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

Shakti reappears…

Now she is holding an ancient bell which she holds to her heart between her naked breasts, and she chimes it 9 times. She is standing right before me, looking down into my eyes. She’s naked except for a most magically deep scarlet skirt of the finest transparent silk. It is lined with exquisite glittering gold thread running down in lines from her waist to her feet.

I see the flames of the fire dancing through her skirt between her legs, her inner thighs and calves aglow with the flames golden light. Her whole body glistens with perfumed oil. Her fingers are covered, adorned with rings of gold and silver, jewels of ruby emerald diamond on everyone. Necklaces hang down, pearls and Moonstone’s grace her voluptuous swelling naked full breasts. Silver anklets covered in tiny bells adorn her ankles. Around her waist is a silver serpent, and at her belly just below the navel the snake has its tail in its mouth.

She has a single fine strand of silver and encircling her head and at the centre of her third eye hangs the most exquisite pink diamond, yoni shaped, glittering and reflecting from within, its magical light down into my being.

Shakti smiles…

Shakti fire dance

 

Ever so slowly, she starts to dance, all the while looking into my eyes, her hypnotic kohl-lined eyes mesmerising my being. She dances around the fire, sometimes twirling and spinning, swaying her hips, her whole body writing, undulating, shaking, stamping her feet upon the floor of the cave.

Her jewels and bracelets all tinkling and chiming a subtle metallic beat of their own. Her beautiful full swelling breasts glisten and sway with her rhythm, she smiles at me, delighting in my arousal and complete adoration of every inch of her exotic being. Shakti is happy and she laughs, making the most magical humming sounds and intonations.

A delicious heat arises throughout my whole body, even though I am sitting cross-legged on the floor smiling, my manhood stands totally hard and erect, fully aroused and proudly awakened, pulsating and throbbing with the sacred heat arising upwards, through my body. Divine desire and warmth continues upwards through my centre, through my beating heart, up into my third eye and Crown. I start to hum and chant strange yet familiar sounds responding to her sounds, we become one through the rhythm and sound.

Shakti is happy and she laughs aloud.

to be continued…

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Tantra is the most effective way to unify body mind spirit

WANTED: Women to teach Tantra

Wanted: Women to train as Tantra Teachers

All over Australia

Especially Canberra, Cairns, Darwin, Tasmania, Townsville

Do you believe you have healing hands? Do you love touch, stroking and massage?
Want to use your Reiki energy to help men and women heal themselves? Are you a Lightworker?

Teach and educate men

–       how to control their ejaculation and last longer

–       how to pleasure women better

–       how to improve communication when making love

–       how to take making love and sexuality to a higher level of Joy and Bliss for both Men and Women

Do you have a massage table?

Do you want to work from home or a private place?

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Ally’s Practitioner Training has 5 Modules

The first one is how to give the Tantra Pleasure Experience to Men. Second one is for Womens Sensual and Yoni Massage, Third is Advanced Tantra sessions, 4th is training for Couples sessions, 5th is how to run your tantra massage business successfully. Mine has been running successfully for over 8 years. I have taught lots of people about Tantra and Sacred Sexuality all over Australia and New Zealand, and trained 10 people in some or all of these modules.

Each module is approximately 10 hours and can be done over 2 or 3 days, depending on your availability.  You will also receive a Women’s Tantra Massage/Initiation as part of your Training.

The training is one-one, and you need to book 3-4 models for training and practice.

The pre-requisites are:

*      a passion and desire to help and heal people, few judgements about people, lots of compassion and unconditional love to give

*      Completion of Application Form and return by email ASAP, and a phone conversation (approx 30 minutes)

*      You need to have your own portable massage table.

*      Some sexy clothing that make you feel like a goddess.

*      Payment of deposit of $500 to confirm your intention to do the Training. You can pay your deposit by direct deposit, or VISA or MasterCard. (NB with credit card it is there is a 3% transaction fee.)

So if you are interested in investing in your own business, learning more to enhance your existing business, or purely for personal use, contact Ally to arrange your training sessions.

More details see Tantra Training Academy

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Your Pleasure

What is your pleasure?

your pleasure Tantric massage with Ally

Your Pleasure is relaxing, enjoying, doing nothing, receiving. Pleasure is surrendering to being pleasured. In giving pleasure you often receive it as well.

What gives you pleasure? Giving gifts, giving compliments, receiving touch, receiving compliments, hearing someone say “I love you”? Doing spontaneous special things for your spouse, for your friend, with your lover, to your partner? Receiving a special present of time or a quality item?

Is it appreciating a sunset or a babies smile or child’s first steps? Smelling fresh mown grass or hay? Eating a beautiful meal of a smorgasbord of tastes and colours? Or hearing a special song that makes you feel romantic or loved?

Do you enjoy reading a book, meditating, or learning something new? Check out my book “What Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples” HERE

A child’s pleasure is delight, wonder of a ladybird or a new toy – which can be a cardboard box!
A teenager’s pleasure could be a night of passionate sex!
An adult’s pleasure could be the delicious taste of a delicate wine, or a breath of fresh air or the stars at night…

Your pleasure can be the absence of pain or the edge or pain – it’s different things to different people…

A smile expresses pleasure. If you add sound of laughter it builds and spreads more, from one person to another. A baby’s giggle, a child’s laugh, and adults chuckle make us smile or laugh too Laughter is infectious, bubbling up and transferring from you to me…

Pleasure turns sadness into happiness, joy into bliss,
giggles into laughter and ennui into love.

What is your greatest pleasure?

You can experience a Tantra Pleasure Experience – a taste of Tantra with Ally today, this week. More details HERE, make a Booking, call on 0419 038 310 if you are in Adelaide EMAIL if you are in Australia, New Zealand or any country in the world…

Your pleasure is medicine and love has the power to heal with tantra massage
Pleasure is medicine and love has the power to heal. Devi Ward

Shakti’s Cave

Shakti’s Cave

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

I slowly climb the path upwards and with each step upwards by step inwards. There are many caves in the holy mountain, my mother, but there is only one that is the cave I desire tonight: the Cave of Shakti’s fire.

I arrive at the entrance of the cave, my destination. I remember that it is not about the destination but the journey. Above the cave’s entrance is a silver crescent moon, as I climb the final step twilight falls, Venus rises above the horizon, and the light of the full moon illuminates every rock and stone.

From within the cave shines a golden light, beckoning, inviting me to enter within. A sweet fragrance, divinity itself, perfumes the early night air, filling my being with welcoming delight.

***

Now I become a true Shiva self, to enter the temple cave as my realised God self. I bow down and enter within. Before me burns a fire and behind the fire on the other side stands the goddess Shakti, smiling, welcoming me with open hands and heart.

Before me appears a tiger skin on the floor. Shakti smiles and beckons me to sit down upon the skin. First I bow down, my forehead touching the floor, I thank her for welcoming me into the temple of my sacred sexual self.

My breathing is relaxed, deeply inhaling the fragrance of the goddess: frangipani, Jasmine, rose, sandalwood and musk. With each inhalation I become more and more intoxicated and yet my energy becomes more awake, alert, refreshed.

***

Shakti now holds a bell, she strikes it 3 times and each pure note resonates throughout my entire being. She disappears… I close my eyes, falling, falling deeply back into the oceanic depths of awareness that transcends all time and space.

Appearing to my left standing in the earth is my Shiva staff, my Trident. In my right hand appears my drum, and I start to make a slow steady beat.

Deeper and deeper I feel the depth of the beat, first in my heart, then beating through my whole body, rocking me gently backwards and forwards. I open my eyes…

The fire grows high, the flames rising, dancing, licking the roof of the cave.

to be continued ….01 Mt Arunachala

Premature ejaculation control

MEN

  • Do you come too quickly? Are you frustrated by PE? see PE
  • Want to learn how to last longer? For yourself for more pleasure, or to pleasure your partner more? see CONTROL
  • Do you have ejaculation problems? Either coming too soon or not being able to come when you want to? Ask Ally about Tantric breath techniques.
  • Do you have erection problems or erectile dysfunction? See ED post
  • Does performance anxiety and/or low self confidence in love-making worry you?
  • Do you have performance anxiety, low self confidence in love-making?
  • Have you had prostate problems, prostate surgery? see PROSTATE (below)
  •  Are you too stressed or too tired to perform in bed? Are you or your partner unsatisfied because one wants more sexual activity than the other?Tantric techniques can help  you.

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Definitions of PE

Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. Premature ejaculation is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation. The most common definition is that premature ejaculation occurs if the ejaculation occurs within two minutes of penetration (wikipedia). Premature ejaculation can be differentiated between two types: primary, which is present from the time a male begins puberty, and secondary which is acquired later in the man’s life. Premature ejaculation can be further divided between; global premature ejaculation, which occurs with all partners and in all contexts and situational premature ejaculation which occurs in certain situation or with specific partners

Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, if at all, an accurate prevalence rate is hard to determine… (from Wikipedia)

“At the 2006 Congress of the European Society for Sexual Medicine, an American research paper reported:

  • the average lasting time of men with PE was 1.8 minutes
  • ‘normal’ men lasted an average of 7.3 minutes.

But there were males who claimed to have premature ejaculation, yet who could last up to 25 minutes. This clearly shows people have wildly differing ideas about what is normal!”

“Premature ejaculation (PE)is also known as rapid or fast or early or involuntary ejaculation. It is defined as persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal stimulation, either before, upon or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes it. This disturbance causes distress and interpersonal difficulties and can lead to decreased satisfaction to either one or both partners. It is now also recognized that ejaculation happens with little or no voluntary control.”          

You are NOT alone

Premature Ejaculation is widely believed to be the most common male sexual dysfunction, it affects between 20% and 30% of men and affects men of all ages.                                         (http://www.sexualhealthaustralia.com.au)

Premature ejaculation is a common sexual problem observed in men worldwide. It can cause frustration, guilt and performance anxiety.
Often PE, ED and other sexual problems are caused by anxiety, depression, worry, overwork, stress, tiredness, guilt and bereavement. Other factors can be obesity, diabetes, alcohol, smoking, nicotine and other drugs (recreational and depression).

Many men suffer from premature ejaculation for a long time because they find it embarrassing to talk about their sexual problems with doctors, therapists, partners or friends. The problem is not doing anything about it, because if you don’t do anything, it will get worse. So you need to take action TODAY!

The reason it’s so quick goes back to when you learned about your sexuality and masturbation. It had to be quiet and quick, so you didn’t get caught, didn’t it?! And so now you need to learn how to control it – to last longer, to be louder, so that you can have more pleasure and so your partner can have more too…

And then there are times that it comes up when you don’t want it to, and others when you want it to and it doesn’t. Its all about control – coming when you want to, not when it wants to!

As you know, there are SO many treatments, cures and drugs (Viagra and other pills and potions, injections), clinics and therapists offering solutions. These don’t work for everyone, and they all have side-effects, some worse than what you are trying to heal!
However if you would like to learn the natural way (no drugs, no sniffing) to control, as taught to many Emperors, Kings, Princes in ancient India and China, then you’re at the right place to find out about Tantra.

Control

Learning Tantric exercises can help you control your erection, your orgasms (so you can have many), your ejaculation (which is different from orgasm – when you learn how to control it).

It’s easy to learn, and in my first (of 3) sessions you can learn how to do it and practise so that you get the experience of how it works. Then its up to you to practise more!

Learn how to last longer, elevate your sexual bliss and control your ejaculation naturally with Tantra

Prostate

If you have had prostate surgery, you can learn how to control your erection, and still have amazing pleasure, with Tantric techniques. Also see ED page for natural Australian healing oil which can also help you.

For a confidential, safe, enjoyable one hour session, make an appointment to see me NOW!

See my Testimonials below and HERE for success stories.

Contact Ally now or make a booking on the Booking Page

Testimonials

Hi Ally,

This is the testimonial I promised you in appreciation for your (extra) time & most wonderful experience you provided me with.
As mentioned I discussed with an Indian doctor that I have difficulty getting then maintaining an erection. I guess I was looking for a quick fix drug such as Viagra but the Doc suggested I try Tantra in the first instance while I undergo all the usual health tests. He suggested that I might actually enjoy the experience even if I was unable to get and/or maintain an erection. (How right he was!) Anyway, I decided to give Tantra a go, but being a sceptical person I thought I would possibly have a relaxing massage but be back to the doctor for the miracle drug! (How wrong was I?)
Anyway, I happened upon your site & I’m so glad I did as you managed to assist me in gaining a reasonable erection which, with your physical efforts & verbal instructions I was able to maintain. In addition, you brought me very close to ejaculation several times. I felt so good with my apparent orgasm/s which I didn’t think could happen with males.
Ally taught me to breathe & control intimate muscles. Breathing was sometimes difficult to control as Ally’s wonderful touches & beautiful presence often took my breath away. It is so hard to explain, Ally’s touches had all of my senses going totally crazy & I think I lost control of reality & moved into a land of fantasy. (God she is good! How does she do this?).
Ally is a very professional & intelligent lady in that she can talk to you as the client explaining the concept of Tantra & keep your attention as a teacher but when she is with you in a more intimate position she is so very, very sexual almost as if she is transformed between a teacher, masseuse & intimate partner but all the time explaining that this is self love. Well if this is self love, I would want Ally there to share it, she is simply fantastic.
Thank you so much Ally I love you for being a true professional who is a such a wonderfully patient & understanding person but especially for providing me with the most breathtaking sexual experience that left me relaxed, drained, satisfied & just about any other pleasant feeling I could imagine. If you were a drug, I’d be addicted.
When our session finished I realised we had gone a little overtime but it felt like I was with you much longer. I don’t mind saying that you had me trembling with an indescribable feeling of pleasure. Then, being the ultimate professional that you obviously are, you surprised me again by not rushing me out of the door but sat me down to discuss my feelings & allowing me the time with you to just talk.
I was so very comfortable with your company (I’m often a little awkward with one-on-one female company outside of business) I didn’t want to leave …
Let me assure that you & the experience you gave me will be etched in my memory for sometime
A good price for a great service………A very satisfied client………….Thanks Ally, I’ll be back……..Soon!
Ally, you said I should let out my true feelings & at the moment these are my feelings. I just wish I could express such feelings in better words; but how do I describe perfection (you & what you do) & what is in my mind, or more to the point my heart. In such a short time you have made me take a breath, not just on your table but in my life. I may not have stopped working but I’m rescheduling my 24/7 workload to allow for a break or two, in fact I called up a couple of old friends (nothing to do with work) & we are having dinner tonight. I would like to use your service as a future time out (it beats fishing).
Kind regards, T

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Harbouring Halloween erotic poem

Harbouring Halloween 

It was the dark of the moon
the dark goddess came out
and she wore white lace
to seduce and bewitch with a pout.

She danced to her inner music
and he watched, in a trance
while she turned and twirled
weaving her erotic love dance.

Then they undressed each other
slowly, languidly, with the tide
this except for her lacy G string,
which he gently moved aside.

Revelling in her juiciness
he licked and teased her venus mound
while she leaned to find handholds
on the Nav. table and all round.

Then, with her legs in the air
and her body open wide
the dark of the moon reflected in his eyes
as he slid gently inside.

The yacht rocked gently
under the Horn-ed moon
the lapping of the sea water
kept rhythm with their sexy tune.

Did anyone in the marina hear
their moans of passionate sex?
Her quivers and gasps of ecstasy?
His tremendous climax?

Perhaps only the fish
under the boat’s keel
sheltering from the storm
out in the Keppel sea….

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Seduction Bliss – erotic poem

Seduction Bliss 

The goddess in her power
chooses her consort
invite him into her pleasure temple
arouses his sexual fire. 

She pleasures him from behind
body slides joining energy
with ecstatic sighs and mutual movement. 

He turns over
slowly languidly
but rising and antic ……. i …… pation
and lies there, expecting more. 

She feels his heart is full
overflowing energy expressed in kisses
she spreads it outward
his strong masculine energy mirrors its expansion. 

She pleasures with her hands
stroking, teasing, tempting and spreading
his rhythm and undulations are stronger
she blisses him in many ways. 

Feeling the time is right
she strokes up his legs
slowly teasing his thighs, his cock
to spread full length in united undulation. 

Slipping and sliding on oily sensations
moving in harmony to the universal rhythm
lovingly connected on lots of levels
we join as one in the light. 

Tingling and shaking together
we are dancing in ecstasy
taste touch smells sight and sound
the music lifts us higher. 

Finally we explode
with ecstatic pleasure
oozing out every pore…
slowly returning to this place
satiated relaxed with enjoyment and bliss!

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Pleasure Dance – erotic poem

Pleasure dance

Starting slowly

your kiss tingles and teases

tentatively

nibbled nipples

expand the feeling

of arousal

warm glow spreads down

my body

engulfing all with sensitivity.

The circuit is joined

between 2 nipples and Cleo

reports of pleasure

begin flow to the music.

As your tongue flicks

the waves of exquisiteness

peak again and again

I drown in ecstasy.

Fingers explore and expand

Scouting and surveying

arousal becomes a need

“I want you–now!”

As I writhe in anticipation

feeling the tentative head

hesitating at my entrance

then plunging in – to fill me

Into the smooth sensuous satin

of my juicy receptive warmth

your hot throbbing strength in

the thrusting rhythm of love.

As we dance all over the bed

sending pleasure back and forth

bodies locked in enjoyment

of the pleasure dance.

Couple tantric red Shiva Shakti dance artbyMarkLee