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Bliss – erotic poem

He teased me with his tongue

tempted me

thrilled me

touched me with fingertips

until I shuddered and twitched with pleasure.

Tips of tongues

rimming lips

fingertips caressing the bare skin

of my arms

my waist, hips

my inner thighs.

My juices flowed

sweet dampness in my knickers

my lips quivered and opened

as he circled on the edge

teasing me again.

His lips licked my nipples

and sucked them sweetly

my moans and sighs escaped

into the night.

In his fingers wandered down

to explore my sweet wetness

stimulating and teasing

bringing on waves of pleasure.

Our kisses joined the circle

Electric energy flowing both ways

our energies soared together

United with the rapture of love.

And then he knelt on top

so he could lick me better

and I sucked him all the way

sweetly joined and spiritual ecstasy

I lost track of the number of orgasms

cresting on peaks of bliss

we moaned and breathed together

radiating out from our kiss.

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Khajuraho couple by Ally Tantra

Erotic or Kinky

What’s the difference between Erotic and Kinky?

It’s the difference between using a feather or using a whole chicken!Erotic_Vs_Kinky_Pratchett

I love this quote! I recently found out that this famous quote was made by Terry Pratchett, the author of Discworld books, plays and other amazing stories.

So what is erotic? Is it sexual, turn on, teasing, imagination, fantasy, romantic, sensual, vanilla?

And what does “kinky” conjur up for you? Is it fantasy, BDSM, fetish, hard, bondage, sensations, orgies, groups, or something else…

And where is the edge between erotic and kinky? Is it in definition? Is it a boundary? Who decides?

Does kinky spice up your ordinary sexual experience? How often do you have to do it to make it kinky? Once or many times?

Kinky Fetish Bondassage

Bondassage can be kinky. It is a sensual, edgy combination of massage, sensory deprivation and sensation play, which can be relaxing, erotic or exotic!

Tantra Pleasure Experience – Tantra Massage

A Tantra Pleasure Experience is Erotic, Sensual, connecting. Some people think Tantra is Kinky, however once you experience it, your perspective shifts. I help you experience Tantra with a massage, a sensual massage, which relaxes and invigorates you, connects you to your self, and can heal your feeling of separation from the world. So instead of a little feather, you become integrated with the whole chicken, the egg and the universe!

Book now for Tantra or Bondassage session with Ally. More info for Men Women Couples

** A couple more good quotes from Terry Pratchett below

Namaste

Ally

Terry Pratchett quote about naked witches
Do witches work naked?
TerryPratchett Passion Fire
How to warm a man?

Tantric Energy Love – erotic poem

Tantric Energy

Inside is out (my body is inside out)
Outside is in (stars inside me).

Spaces in eternity

textures in energy

creative in spaces

linked by strands

moving continuously

peaceful and calm

not separate, integrated.

How to create

Convert this beingness

To tangible useful?

Using this energy

Building tiny pieces

Strengthening the strands

Tying and weaving

Fabric of stars.

Dancing together

Weaving the music

The magic of love

Energy

Is

Bliss…

tantric energy stars

by Ally 2006

I wrote this poem after a very tantric love making session with a very good lover, and it is a small echo of the experience. I tried to capture the essence of the feeling in the first two lines…

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Tantric Energy by Ally My Tantra Massage

Divine Eros

I have read a wonderful book called “The Power of Divine Eros” by A H Almaas and Karen Johnson. At the end of each chapter are questions, which I have written the answers to and share with you here:

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How do I experience the selfless giving of love?

When I give people a massage or healing session, I tune into spirit, the divine eros, and open my heart to the flow of love.

I experience it like the feeling of taking someone on a journey, with the power of love, unconditional and honouring. I feel that I guide them to move out of their head into their body and experience the opening of the heart space–a Stargate which they go through or sit on the edge of pleasure, floating on waves of breath, in tune with and in control of their own energy. I feel the connection of our energy–sometimes I let a vibrate me, sometimes it turns me on, and sometimes it gives me energetic orgasms.

I give my body and spiritual energy over to this divine erotic energy and feels wonderful.

I need to be aware of my breath and my control, so that I keep the other person’s energy at all on the edge, without going over.

Sometimes when I’m not feeling 100 percent at the beginning, the healing energy coming through heals me as well and I feel relaxed and energised afterwards.

When people express themselves in moans or words, I feel great, to know I have once again been a tour guide to help them get in touch with the divine erotic energy.

How do I experience passionate wanting?

I experience passionate wanting in the moment. Often when giving a Tantra Pleasure Experience massage, I feel that I “ fall in love “ with the person. I feel very close and intimate. Sometimes I WANT to stay in the moment for ever–feeling the connection and the pleasure, the intimacy and the flow of love that seems to go both ways in a circle. And neither needs to give or receive, take or leave, not separate, just flowing in unconditional compassionate feeling. Is it love? Or divine eros? No words can really describe how I feel.

How I experience the relationship of these 2 things – Selfless Giving of love and Passionate Wanting – in my life, in my experience? 

I experience these two as a flow. As I give pleasure to someone, I feel intimate, connected to them and to the large wholeness of being. The Wanting is to merge rather than a selfish need to hold on or separate. It’s a merging into wholeness.

How do I experience the opposition, the conflict, or the disharmony between this week giving spiritual love on the one hand, and the wanting, the desire, the passion and intensity on the other?

Spiritual love is connecting, easy, flowing and sometimes Wanting is separating and pulsing, not flowing smoothly.

With a lover recently, I didn’t feel that spiritual connection. He didn’t kiss me much, and didn’t touch me much. No desire was awakened. Although my yoni was very juicy, my mind was not turned or not tuned in. It was a strange disconnected feeling, however it still worked. We made love, easily and with good connection. But without intimacy, without love. So I flowed with physical, the passion and His obvious need and desire for sex (but not desire for me). And I flowed with my body’s needs for sex, for release, for physical enjoyment. But I didn’t feel loved.

As Allan Pease says “Women give sex for love, and men give love for sex…”

What are the ways in which I experience my love for the world?

My love for the world comes with compassion, with healing, releasing as much judgment about people so that I can love them and be open for them to learn, heal, relax and surrender. To make a safe space for people to rejuvenate and feel relaxed, empowered and re-energised.

My intention is that the sacred space that I have created in my healing temple room in Adelaide and the portable healing space I create in other cities, towns, homes and rooms, is a safe secure space for people to feel at-home, so that they can release their burdens stresses, fears and anxieties; to heal their hurts and pains, and feel the free flow of the spiritual energy and the connection to the Universe/Source/God to be whole and complete.

I also experience my love for the world by healing the world one person at a time.

How do I experience my love for spiritual freedom?

My love for spiritual freedom is experienced as a light, unlimited, disembodied feeling–like dreaming, like when you first wake from sleep, like a magic orgasm, no limits, no boundaries, just ease and flow. Its like swimming with no clothes to restrict, like flying on the wings of the wind, being transported by a touch or taste or smell. It can last a few seconds, a few minutes, or be outside of time and eternal. It’s a feeling that is beyond sight, beyond words, beyond description. The words talk around it. Like clear sky–eternal and limitless, with no edges, no horizon, no beginning or end.

How do I experience the relationship between these 2 loves? My love for the world and my love for spiritual freedom.

In my Tantric practice and teaching, I am trying to give the client an experience of spiritual freedom and love and loving themselves, by taking them through their body, via breathing awareness, so that they can feel the freedom that I feel. I guide them through a series of steps that mostly gives them a spiritual experience of…

Is it tantra, Home, God, Enlightenment, source, WTF, sexual, spiritual, pleasure, bliss, euphoria or wow!?

Which leaves them often in an altered state, a different space, relaxed and energised, heavy and blissful. They are in love with themselves and feeling free…

What connects them? Me!

Ally July 2014

Divine Eros is spiritually opening my heart, mind body and soul to the flow of love.

Tantra is spiritual love

Tantra is Sexuality and Spirituality

I used to think that sexuality and spirituality were at the opposite ends of the spectrum. Tantra brings them together. It adds another dimension to sex, changing it from a purely physical act to something beyond.

Tantra combines awareness, mindfulness, meditation – bringing trust respect and love – with the connection of breath and energy of two people.tantra couple sexuality and spirituality

Changing the scenario of one person wanting sex and the other “putting up with it” or one being hyperactive and the other too tired, using tantric awareness of breath brings  your energies into balance and harmony.

As in yoga and martial arts, body awareness is also important in tantra. Awareness of your body, whether tense or relaxed and exploring your partners body and your states of arousal are important. Knowing how to turn YOUR SELF on, with breath, physical movements and mind power means that you can control your sexuality – to turn it on or make the feelings stronger. Tantra gives you keys to do this easily.

Sounds are a simple way of communicating – breathing aloud, moaning, cooing, aums, giggling, your loving feelings to each other. Silence in sex can be frustrating, so ask your partner what they would like (before or during). Communicate what you would like to do, to receive, as you feel in the moment. Keep it positive!

Or set up a scenario – role play, dress up, act a fantasy out. It can be a surprise spontaneous by one person for the other, or a planned scene by both of you together. If you know she wants to act out “50 Shades of Grey” scenario, get some clothes and appropriate gear and surprise her. If he wants to bring in his strong Warrior identity, she can set the scene and you both unfold a co-creation together.

Start your tantric session with a short meditation, a simple dedication to each other. Use candles and incense to set the scene for spiritual tantric sexuality. Honour your partner for the goddess she is, and respect him for the wonderful loving man that he is.

One at a time, tell the other some positive things about them, how much you love them, one person speaks and the other listens. Then thank each other and say what you would like to receive in your tantric lovemaking. Then make sure you give your partner what they ask for, with love and respect.

Afterwards, when you are basking in the after glow, give positive, honest appreciations to each other. How much you enjoyed it – the expected and unexpected aspects of your lovemaking. And give thanks to the Great Spirit, to Source, or whatever name you give to that which connects us, to the Allness of Being, that joins sexual and spiritual together in us.

Tantra is an interconnected combination of sexuality and spirituality

Ally

2014